The importance of this website

[JasonBeam]

1 hour ago, Appreciater said:

I find it amazing that there are quite a few on the site who have had experiences of doctors and nurses examining their dicks as they were growing up as kids or teens. ...  I never remember ever having my dick exposed to a doctor or nurse as a kid.

 

As I recall, and it's been awhile. when I was young (prepubescent), my father would take me and my twin brother to the pediatrician on a year for a check up.  I would go in the exam room and strip down to my underwear. the doctor would go through the standard exam, and then towards the end he would pull open the waistband of my underwear and just visually look at my genitals, he never touched them and it took all of 10 seconds. As a teenager I vaguely remember being told that we should check our testicles maybe once a month, and that it was best if we did it while taking a hot shower. I think I recall just once being shown by a doctor how to check my testicles. I do think I was asked several times after that if I checked them, and asked if I ever found anything unusual. I assume if I had said yes the doctor would have checked them. I did receive annual physicals in the Navy, and my testicles were examined by the doctor.

I wondering now whether this is because the doctor could see that I was circumcised, and if I was uncircumcised perhaps it would have been necessary to check if my foreskin could be retracted without discomfort. 

[Appreciater]

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I suppose this site means this to the majority of us.   ... Even if we have different ideas, different needs, different life styles...  When it comes down to it with we guys here, the MAIN attitude is.........

 

Thank you for being a friend
Traveled down a road and back again
Your heart is true, you're a pal and a confidant

I'm not ashamed to say
I hope it always will stay this way
My hat is off, won't you stand up and take a bow

And if you threw a party
Invited everyone you knew
Well, you would see the biggest gift would be from me
And the card attached would say

Thank you for being a friend
Thank you for being a friend
Thank you for being a friend
Thank you for being a friend

[toadfish327]

18 hours ago, Appreciater said:

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.... @Nhnative, I find it amazing that there are quite a few on the site who have had experiences of doctors and nurses examining their dicks as they were growing up as kids or teens. ...  I never remember ever having my dick exposed to a doctor or nurse as a kid.

I had my share of shots in my butt cheeks, but even then it was just my butt cheek exposed.

 

When I was young and pre puberty, maybe 5 or 6 yeras old, i got a rash on my genitals.  Mom took me to the doctor who sent me to the hospital. I remember nurses coming in and rubbing some kind of lotion on my dick and balls several times a day.  Not sure if I got erect or not but I probably did.  I do remember several doctors and nurses telling me to check my nuts for lumps monthly while showering.

I know I got several shots in the butt too.

[The Jester]

19 hours ago, Appreciater said:

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I suppose this site means this to the majority of us.   ... Even if we have different ideas, different needs, different life styles...  When it comes down to it with we guys here, the MAIN attitude is.........

 

Thank you for being a friend
Traveled down a road and back again
Your heart is true, you're a pal and a confidant

I'm not ashamed to say
I hope it always will stay this way
My hat is off, won't you stand up and take a bow

And if you threw a party
Invited everyone you knew
Well, you would see the biggest gift would be from me
And the card attached would say

Thank you for being a friend
Thank you for being a friend
Thank you for being a friend
Thank you for being a friend

Very good AP!. This poetry bug must be catching!

Hope you don't mind me suggesting a small addition to line 7:

Well, you would see the biggest 📦, 

Would be from me to you!

[gdel205]

On 6/24/2026 at 12:28 PM, JasonBeam said:

I know the old saying is that you shouldn't dwell on the past, but it's tough not to think back about all the stuff you didn't do because you were so worried about your self-image, and that people would find out about your terrible, dark secret (I know that sounds overly dramatic, but sometimes that's how it felt, at least at the time)

I may not be much to look at these days (LOL), but I was pretty good looking back in my teens and twenties. I remember any number of times in high school that girls would try to flirt with me, and classmates would tell me that they heard the girl tell her friends that she liked me. 
I more or less just rejected them, or at least acted like I wasn't interested, and some of these girls were really aggressive and that frankly scared me because I had no self-confidence, and the fact that if things got too "involved" they would discover how small I was .. she would be repulsed and I would be humiliated. Worse, she might start laughing and then run to tell are her friends about it. 

Looking back, I missed out on what could have been some very good experiences. I'm in a much better mental place today with regards to my "equipment". I just wish the teenage me would have had as much confidence as I have today.

The reason I'm telling this story is because this place, this website, and the people here, are an important part of what got me to that better place . . . .

It has been a long time, but recently I have been remembering a situation where two guys were talking about my dick size and correlating it to the degree of my masculinity. I never thought of my cock being small until then. I internalized that embarrassment causing me to have low self-confidence and low self-esteem. That all changed when I met someone two years ago,  someone that was small like myself but with a bigger sense of  self-worth, he. He didn’t care what others thought of him and his small dick…He preferred, admired, enjoyed small dicks as compared to bigger size dicks. He mentioned of online sites with the focus of guys with small dicks. I lost track of him but I wonder if he was a part of this site. Long story, I believe like you that this site is a safe haven to express yourself, to learn and grow… to laugh and enjoy without any negative feelings/influence.  Cheers

[JasonBeam]

On 8/5/2026 at 8:21 AM, gdel205 said:

That all changed when I met someone two years ago,  someone that was small like myself but with a bigger sense of  self-worth, he. He didn’t care what others thought of him and his small dick…He preferred, admired, enjoyed small dicks as compared to bigger size dicks. He mentioned of online sites with the focus of guys with small dicks. I lost track of him but I wonder if he was a part of this site. Long story, I believe like you that this site is a safe haven to express yourself, to learn and grow… to laugh and enjoy without any negative feelings/influence.  Cheers

I have always believed that No matter what your penis size is, there are plenty of women (or men) who would be happy to touch it, suck it, stroke it, taste it, and have it any any number of body orifices. Sure, there are a small minority of women (and men) who prefer a large penis, but the vast majority just don't attach a lot of importance to it. When I met my last partner I was convinced early on that she was a size queen, mostly because she had a rather wild sex life, and she wasn't shy about telling you about it. She had been married twice, and was still married to her second husband when we met, although she hadn't seen him in maybe 4 - 5 years.  She obviously had many sexual partners, and I told myself that there was no way I was going to be able to satisfy her in bed .. I couldn't have been more wrong.