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I have seen a lot of boys over the years, i don't think they are bigger, but the ones that are know it and in my experience flaunt it more. A friend of mine has two sons thare both already almost as big as we are, and the oldest has barely started puberty . Genetics are weird .

One of the biggest youngest kid I ever saw, was in 7th grade at 13, he was even shorter than me, but almost 5 inches flaccid, well over twice my size .

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I have an abnormally small penis by anyone’s definition ( 3” x 3.3” erect) so any comparison I might make of myself against young boys is not really valid. I also suffered from ‘delayed puberty’. I was right at turning sixteen before I got any indication at all that puberty had started for me. The last time I got to see young boys naked was in a public pool change/shower room a few years or so ago. There were four of them. One boy was maybe twelve I guess. He had obviously started puberty. He had just a bit of pubic hair showing and his flaccid penis hung at least three inches. His thing looked to be just as long and thicker flaccid than mine would have been if it was erect. I thought to myself that he was probably bigger than a friend I had when we were that age. The other three boys were still prepubescent, as far as I could tell. They were maybe in the nine to ten year old range. They were all still hairless but just as large if not larger than I was, which didn’t really surprise me at all. Two of the boy’s penises weren’t erect but they were sticking straight out. They were totally uninhibited and horsing around in the shower. I think they noticed me looking even though I tried not to be obvious about it. They noticed mine too. They didn’t seem to mind being obvious about looking at mine though..lol. I heard them giggling as I left the shower room. They might not have been giggling about what I think they were giggling about....but they probably were, lol. In my opinion young boys are definitely growing larger penises and going through puberty earlier than a generation ago. But that’s only my opinion based solely on that one observation.

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I was 18 and my friend 15. we were on adhd pills wich get you hight but also shrink your dick.  so my friend told me that his was dick was so small and he asked to compared. i was 2" wich look tiny because i'm 6'.  my friend is 5'5 and he was 4.5". he laught because he just said that his dick was tiny but mine was 1/2 of his.

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Ya despite the mutual ethical concern we all share or are scared of, this thread turns me on.

I only checked out cocks on teens when I was also around that age. I was slow to start puberty so those dicks were growing so fast it seemed that I was never gonna catch up. 

I mean, it gave me no confidence to try and hook up with a girl when I knew mine was still less than 3 hard like a baby's while many peers at 4.5 to 5.5 inches long, with a few past 6, and getting thicker..  Looking at all the dicks back then made me horny also.

Actually one of the things i like to look at on porn is cute teen boys, usually black skinned because big dick tendencies, and watch them do solo. It is super hot when they look super young and have a huge dick. It definitely gives me an extra strange humiliating turned on feeling

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@curiositycat888  I completely get that; reading this site and others, and analyzing my own sexual psycho-history, makes me wonder sometimes if there are maybe generally two large subgroups of men who would frequent sites like this. Note that I speak from a heterosexual's point of view, simply because I can't fully imagine any other. 

The one group would be those for whom the "core" of their penis size issue concerns the penis as a sexual organ in the literal sense: "Am I/Will I be able to satisfy a woman?" The person whose judgement the men in this group are most afraid of (or find the most fetishistically enticing) is female. 

Conversely, the other group's compunctions/anxieties/fetishizations concern the penis as a sexual organ in a symbolical sense - "once removed," if you will, from actual sex. "How do I compare to *other men* and what does the size of my penis mean for my status among them?" The person whose judgment these men fear has a penis himself. 

I, for one, very clearly belong to the second group. The fact of my below average size never kept me from having a satisfying sex life; in a weird way, it actually *helps* me have one, because whenever a woman I date gets the hang of (very lightly) teasing me about it, she will get a memorable performance from me. I am, however, helplessly obsessed with my penis as a sexual status symbol in the eyes of other men. Or, more truthfully, I'm obsessed with what *I project* that other men would think of my sexual status if they saw my penis, because in my own idiosyncratic perception, the penis is not a, but THE sexual status symbol, with a fetishistically out- and oversized (haha) importance - which is, see above, completely disconnected from the reality of sex with a woman. A guy I see in the locker room can be ugly, a life-long virgin, a general underachiever in everything else - if his penis is noticeably bigger than mine, he is instantly and irreducibly superior to me and I will feel a pang of humiliation.

The closest I get to defining exactly what this feeling is, is a sort of existential helplessness. The very fact that I am simply, completely, utterly unable to change this  fact about my body plays a large role, the cruel fact that biology deals the cards and you just got to live with it for the entirety of the one life you're getting. The cosmic injustice that lives in the fact that other guys just simply have big dicks, just simply are superior (I my skewed fetishistic perception.) 

The groundwork for this... neurosis? fetish? kink? (none of these quite seem to be le mot juste ) was laid, for most of "us," I would think, in puberty, of course. At the very time when the cards we were dealt were turned over, so to speak, and we could start playing that particular status game.

This finally takes me back to the original point: Seeing a boy of or around that age who is *winning* this game is a kind of re-traumatization; boys like that were the first objects of this helpless existential envy when I was that age myself. That alone would be reason enough for an experience like that to have a special impact, but since I am an adult man today - someone whose sexual status is *obviously much higher* than a 12 year old boy's - it goes much further. The humiliation is not only remembered, but hits me completely afresh, because this other, not yet fully formed male that has absolutely no business having a higher status than me just *does.* 

So, if you react to that feeling of humiliation with sexual arousal (what and why THAT happens is a whole different, and very interesting topic), it seems almost unavoidable that a very young looking guy would incur this in you as well, and perhaps even more intensely. 

 

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@Smallerthan  Spot on! Same with me. I actually enjoy having a small penis as it has become my primary fetish. I love seeing how much bigger other men are and this topic turns me on not because I have any attraction to boys, but because the thought of a pubescent boy having a bigger cock than me turns me on so much.

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1 hour ago, Smallerthan said:

The fact of my below average size never kept me from having a satisfying sex life; in a weird way, it actually *helps* me have one, because whenever a woman I date gets the hang of (very lightly) teasing me about it, she will get a memorable performance from me.

A lot of interesting psychological insight in your post, but you seem to overlook the connection between male disparagement of a small dick and the assumed inability of a small dick to fully satisfy a woman through penetration.  Also, I can't find if and where you admit your size.  With just under 4", I've never experienced fully satisfying a woman in penetration though, of course, some are or claim they are at first, but finally admit a need for oral, dick not doing it for them, etc. 

Basically, I've found the stereotypical male disparagement of a small penis (actually small below 4.5 as defined here) to be more or less true.

Anyway, I don't really understand the above quoted sentence.  Maybe your penis isn't actually small?  Or you haven't found it to be a problem with women?  Why does female teasing have to be involved?  "Go down on me so I can cum" never seemed like "light teasing" to me.

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On 6/17/2021 at 7:31 AM, SloStroker said:

Cocks are getting bigger for sure. I don't have a son but my brother does. He is 25 and I found him on another site where he posted a cock pic. He is a good 2" bigger than either me or my brother. I'm 4.75" and my brother is about 4"....my nephew is a good 6.5" - 7".

As far as I know there is no statistical evidence for this perception.  With all the estrogen simulating chemicals in the environment, I'd guess the opposite.

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With all the growth hormones in processed foods now, boys are, for the most apart developing secondary sexual characteristics quicker. I try my best to stay away from that food. I have a pretty healthy diet and eat lots of healthy veggies. 

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Few scientist support the hormones in food.... it was a hypothesis 20 years ago.
Major cause of early puberty (before 8 in girls, 9 in boys),  childhood obesity 
Poorer nutrition weirdly relates to earlier onset of puberty.
However have found nothing relating early puberty to larger genitals or breasts.

 

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Recently had a pool party at my place. An ex came over with his son. My ex is not big or small, average. At the end of the night, we all got out of the pool and started changing. I noticed his son, 11 now, had a whopper of a dick. His son is 11 and must have at least a 4" flaccid while dad is the same. I was really shocked. I asked my ex about it the next day and he said, "Oh, yeah, you saw that. I don't know where he got it, but mine was no where near that big at his age." I do think they are making them larger these days. 

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1 hour ago, dallasman said:

Recently had a pool party at my place. An ex came over with his son. My ex is not big or small, average. At the end of the night, we all got out of the pool and started changing. I noticed his son, 11 now, had a whopper of a dick. His son is 11 and must have at least a 4" flaccid while dad is the same. I was really shocked. I asked my ex about it the next day and he said, "Oh, yeah, you saw that. I don't know where he got it, but mine was no where near that big at his age." I do think they are making them larger these days. 

From what I've seen and what friends of mine who have sons have told me, cocks are getting bigger. 

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11 and at least 4” flaccid is just amazing. As big soft as I am hard. No wonder you were stunned Dallas - your ex sounds a bit in awe too. 
There is something behind the extraordinary growth at young ages I agree. 

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@Smallerthan Wow, you put some of my thoughts into words better than I have ever been able to do. I definitely fall into the same group as you. I would sure like to hear your thoughts about the statement you put into parentheses in your last line. I've been trying to solve the puzzle of "why THAT happens" since the first time I saw a younger kid with a bigger dick than me. I was 7 and he was 5 years old at the time.

"So, if you react to that feeling of humiliation with sexual arousal (what and why THAT happens is a whole different, and very interesting topic), it seems almost unavoidable that a very young looking guy would incur this in you as well, and perhaps even more intensely."

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On 6/25/2021 at 11:39 AM, smallhappy said:

11 and at least 4” flaccid is just amazing. As big soft as I am hard. No wonder you were stunned Dallas - your ex sounds a bit in awe too. 
There is something behind the extraordinary growth at young ages I agree. 

Naw.  Same thing when I was young in the 1950s.  Seemed nobody was as tiny and retracted as me, but there was average types and then some really amazingly large outliers.

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On 6/18/2021 at 6:21 AM, Smallerthan said:

I, for one, very clearly belong to the second group. The fact of my below average size never kept me from having a satisfying sex life; in a weird way, it actually *helps* me have one, because whenever a woman I date gets the hang of (very lightly) teasing me about it, she will get a memorable performance from me. I am, however, helplessly obsessed with my penis as a sexual status symbol in the eyes of other men. 

"Relationship" covers a lot of often unspoken factors. 

A woman lightly teasing is establishing the nature of the relationship.  She wants to see if you will accept her as the dominant partner, at least to an extent.  This can be about genitals, but also about personality, level of assertiveness, level of masculinity, etc.  She probably acts differently with a more aggressive, dominant, and/or well hung guy.

I'll never get over how differently a few women I observed in group sex related to other more dominant men.  I guess I thought their dominant nature was central to their personality, not primarily a reaction to my more submissive nature.

 

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I think kids are definitely developing at a younger age. At my old gym, they used to host youth swim meets on the weekends. The locker room was shared for the gym and the pool. It was always awkward for me to shower with post-workout shrinkage and there would be some kids as young as 10 (!) walking around in there with bigger hangers than me! Definitely caught some of the older kids snickering more than once.

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I don't know how old the kid was, probably 11 or 12, butI used to go to the YMCA to workout and they had a pool so there was always boys changing in the locker room. This kid had a full size grown man size cock and didn't even have pubes yet. Saw him and his friends giggle at me a few times. 

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Maybe it was during the late 90s, but young boys followed the gym explosion and desired more muscular leaner bodies. There seems to be a lot of boys into bodybuilding even though they are often not old enough to use a gym unsupervised. there is absolutely no doubt that their high testosterone boosts their endurance and strength just as well as any performance enhancer, giving them the cutting edge when they pump iron, because i seem to see so many of them not only competing with mens personal best records, but even superseding them.

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When i was at the pool i saw the Boy, he was maybe 13-14 and ~5'3" in hight. He was wearing a Speedo and His bulge was huge ~6"-6.5" curved down right and quite thick.

Then i was washing under the open lockeroom shower. I was fatter at the Time so my penis were smaller 2.5". The Boy was showering too.  I had to take a look and he saw me looking at him. He first look at me eyes then my penis and he Smiled at me

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I am from Scandinavia. Here we have much more tradition for nudity in public swim baths and such than you seem to have in some other parts of the world, like the US for example. This means that if I go to a swim bath (and sometimes I do, but not often) I see a lot of naked males of all ages. Just from small kids to old men. 

So I have seen many both men and boys over the years. Probably thousands. What concerns men, I am gay, so I have had very close encounters with a lot of cocks. What concerns boys, I have seen hundreds, probably even thousands in lockerrooms or public swim baths since I myself was a kid. So here is what I have observed what concerns boys:

During my childhood in the 80s I myself was an early bloomer. In the 5th grade we were only two out of maybe 30 boys at my school (5th graders) who had hair down there. In 6th grade the number was 4 or maybe 5 out of 30 boys. Still only a very few (15% maybe). But from 7th grade something changed. Most boys seemed to get hairs down that during the 7th grade, which in my country is when you are 13-14 years old. From the 8th grade almost all boys had hairs on their dicks, except maybe two. Yes, I actually do remember two out of maybe 30 boys who had still tiny hairless penises even at 14-15. We are talking about the last half of the 80´s (1987-1990).

But YES, I believe that something has changed since then. During my childhood, most boys had hairs down there at 13 or 14. When I see naked boys now a days (it happens in public swim baths, for example), there seem to be more who get hairs down there already at 11 or 12. Still I would say that most 11 yo´s are hairless and small. But many 12 yo´s look like my generation did when we were 13. So I guess that they might go one year earlier into puberty now than 30 years ago. But I have also noticed, that at 9 or 10, they look just as hairless and small as my own generation did 30 years ago. So I do not think that 9-10 year olds are bigger and hairyer now than 20-30 years ago. But certainly at 11 or 12 they are. And many are fully grown by 14. Or even at 13.

 

MY CONCLUSION:

1980s:

4th grade: nobody had hairs down there

5th grade: 2 out of 30 had hairs.

6th grade: 5 out of 30 had hairs.

7th grade: maybe 20 out of 30 had hairs.

8th. grade: maybe 38 out of 30 had hairs.

 

Today/2021:

4th grade: still nobody has hairs down there

5th grade: they seem to me like the 6th graders 30 years ago, with maybe five or even ten boys out of 30 to have hairs down there at that age (11-12). 

6th grade: I am not sure, but my guess would be that maybe 15 or even 20 out of 30 have hairs now at that age (12-13).

7th grade: maybe 28 out of 30 have hairs now.

8th grade: everybody has hair down there now.

 

I don´t think that boys have bigger dick now than 30 years ago. But they are just fully grown one year earlier, maybe. But their final size to me seems to be the same. Because I do encounter young men in their 20´s and their penissizes are just as different as the older guys I also meet....

But of course, since they seem to develop a bit earlier today, you will see more 12-13 year olds with adult dick sizes than you did 30 years ago. I have seen many boys at around 13 who were just as big as adult men. My point is that I don´t think that their final adult size is bigger now than at that time.

Also, the penis seems (at least to me) to grow before the rest of the body, so that means that many 12-13 year olds seem to have huge dicks. But it could be an optical illusion. 5-6 inches just look way bigger on a slim and small 12-13 kid than it does on a big 30 or 40 year old guy. But 5 or 6 inches is still 5 or 6 inches. And a boy who has a fully grown bush at 13 and a 6 inches penis, could also have the same size at 20 or 30. Maybe he will not grow any more. But of course his 6 inches just looks more impressive on his 13 yo body than it will do on his future 20 or 30 yo body.

 

 

 

 

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