My Genuine Wish for All Men

[AdhesiveSatyr]

Reading through so many posts about penis sizes and guy's trauma surrounding it upsets me to know so many men struggle with hating or at least feel discomfort with the body part that makes you truly male.

The older I get the worse it appears. Maybe that's just what age does to you, magnifies problems that don't seem to be progressing. I don't know.

I get it though. I grew up during the 80's/90's and even then boys/guys obsessed over penis size with very few adults attempting to curb it (which always surprised me). As I've ranted thousands of times, porn is probably the biggest (lol) problem. Starting in the 70's seemingly is when the BIG COCK started being a real focus of most movies & scenes. That's also when porn started to become more socially acceptable. The more accepted it's become in society the more the tropes, such as importance or penis size, have become "societal openly accepted truths". Especially nowadays I'm not surprised people accept those given how "truth challenged" the world has become. I'm not morally against porn at all, I probably watch more than my fair share.

However I learned in my 20's you have to keep a mindset when watching it that many don't seem to. Porn is like the old caricature drawings; you know the ones that accentuate your facial features to almost obscene levels. Huge ears, nose, etc. That's porn. Porn is a caricature of actual sex. Huge dicks, huge tits, huge ass, etc etc etc (depending on what you're watching).

I've seen a lot of penises. Casually, on accident, participation in school & organizations, gyms, etc. Most men look more like guys in this website than in porn. I promise you. If you don't know this than either you haven't seen that many naked men in person OR your insecurities are coloring your perception of what you've seen.

For what it's worth, I think small penises are far more attractive that large. That's me. BUT I also value every penis because it's one of the things that makes men, men. So should you. Especially if it's yours because it's the only one you're going to get. I genuinely hope all men come to terms with that fact and love their penis someday. 

[Appreciater]

@AdhesiveSatyr .....

Just as people are accepting the truth of changing the the statement to.. "All Lives Matter",... We need to realize that "All Dicks Matter".!! ....👍

[AdhesiveSatyr]

@Appreciater We do! Everyone keeps wondering why men are so odd today and for some reason no one thinks about this. Think of the trauma, stress, & anxiety men frequently face because of the misperception of their penis. The guys on this site that struggle with that very real pain are a step ahead and the number of registered users are a percentage of a percentage of a percentage of the men on the planet.

What if men as a whole didn't struggle accepting and loving the quintessential thing that makes them what they are at birth? What kind of freedom of thought would they then be able to focus towards other problems we face as the human race? The amount of negativity that could be circumvented is staggering to think about.

[Murbflex]

You have what you have, there is no changing that.  Why let it bother you, there is enough stress in daily life, why add to it?

[canuck45]

WARNING WARNING WARNING....A RAMBLE OF THOUGHTS

Men struggle silently (Big boys don't cry)
Mental Health commercials are changing this.
Big boys do cry and have hidden problems society expects them to bury.
 I think war (unfortunately) and PTSD has moved men's problems forward, (a very sad sad way to get issues to be recognized)
Soldiers with PTSD and suffering
Furemen with PTSD and suffering
People with PTSD and suffering
People with other mental health concerns and suffering.
Lots of commercials (in Canada anyway from CMHA) now saying......call us.

The artificial paradigm of "perfect humans" is still doing well in the N Americas world, hence all the plastic surgeons (more per capita than anywhere else).
However, 
I would say women have been fighting back for years, claiming mags and media portray a ridiculous ideal.
Even Barbie the icon of every little girl (and some boys)
People are now mocking (not the best way to do it) those that go to extremes to look "beautiful".  Oversize busts, fat asses, lips that look like a killer bee attacked them

TV commercials NOW have, slim, chubby, overweight actors (commercialization for profit but at least it's not all "supermodel" wannabees)
OMG people that are less than "perfect" being represented.
It only took 100 years to start to attack the artificial woman and destroy her.

And of course this leads me to body shaming.
Society forbids you say Lizzie is a fat cow (you get attacked if you do), but it's ok to laugh at a small penis.
But as long as you have "doctors" offering penis enlargement the myths will prosper.

We have a local clinic (a mens sexual health and wellness centre), constantly advertising for ED, non-surgical vasectomies, Peyronie's cure, penis enlargement, testosterone therapy, adult circumcision, counselling......  Makes it sound like everyman is a walking dysfunctional "man" and obviously inadequate.  The commercials sound like some huckster for a snake oil salesman.
The doctor is actually an instructor at the University and respected as such.
No doubt he has the medical qualifications BUT it sounds more like a revolving door of $$$$$

It's this kind of thing that supports the large penis mythology and smaller penises are a "problem"
 

Edited January 8 by canuck45

[Wookieboy]

On 1/8/2025 at 9:40 AM, Appreciater said:

@AdhesiveSatyr .....

Just as people are accepting the truth of changing the the statement to.. "All Lives Matter",... We need to realize that "All Dicks Matter".!! ....👍

Great sentiment!

[Agent55]

Question for those who have sex with women.  Lately I seem to have come across fair number of articles about women and sex with the theme that physically, vaginal pleasure derives from from a bigger (or thicker) dick.  The implication seems to be that the average male endowment as we talk about it here, unless very thick, by itself isn't adequate for the job.  I get that there are lots of ways to have a satisfying sex life, but the message seems like another version of bigger is better.  In your experience, are average men and average women really that naturally mismatched?

[Appreciater]

@Agent55 .....

I say that small, average circumference would be enjoyable to them... perhaps, a larger circumference might be moreso.  ....   

A small, medium, and large latte are all enjoyable.  ...  It just depends on how much enjoyment she prefers. ... 😄👍