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I was dating a girl a few years back who was a born and raised nudist.I wasn't made aware of this until a month or so into the relationship. The topic eventually came up and the question asked whether I'd like to join her and her family for a bbq and swim in the family pool...all nude of course.I was reluctant to begin with as I have a very small uncut penis.She managed to talk me around to it so off we went to her parents place.To be honest it was one of the best things I've ever done. Both her father and brother(22) were significantly larger than me but nothing was ever said.Her sisters boyf

It sounds like you have never been to a Nude Beach or a Nudist resort as that is Not what happens in those areas. My assumption is that you have only been to gyms and the like and have to agree with you to a point in regards to gyms a lot of times. Like you I have read about stories about the once in a while negatives on beaches but, In my experience have never run across that myself and I have seen many men with a smaller penis than myself and at the very least they had no issues being nude.

You know you’re small when you have to use two hands to pee. You have to use your thumb one hand to pull your fly down far enough. Then you have to use two fingers on your other hand to reach in and try to pull out and stretch your thing far enough out of your fly so you don’t actually pee in your pants. I was playing golf once and I had to pee. I turned my back to the guys in my foursome and peed next to a tree. I used the method described above. I’m sure this one guy didn’t actually see my penis but after I finished he commented: “You always know a guy has a tiny dick when has to use two ha

I can never un-see this post, alas.

Shared a few communal showers with my father in law when on holiday, both tried very hard to get a good look at each other’s penis without being obvious, he looked about the same size as me but his glans looked a lot bigger. He only made one comment once after my wife had tried shaving me for the first time, I had gotten used to being smooth and never gave it a thought until just before we entered the changing room it was too late to do anything so I just carried on regardless and hoped he wouldn’t notice. No chance, he asked if I was ill so I had to explain it was all his daughter’s handiwork

The first one I saw smaller than mine was my freshman year on the swim team long ago. Another boy on the team was dressing next to me, it looked like he had testicles and nothing else.

This thread will not continue to chase lloydbaker down his rabbit hole. If he wishes, he can start his own topic in the Rants Raves and Reviews forum. Alan G -- Measurection Administrator

Well, the thread's kind of moved on beyond this comment, but I just had to say that I just never sensed any hierarchy or "competition" in the world of genitalia. Sure there were those smaller than I, but not too many, and some bigger, but most of us (I'm thinking about my junior high and high school days) were actually quite similar in size. So that may be why I never noticed it. Is it all perception, perhaps, and perceived primarily by those at the extremes of the penis size? And on the issue of black penises - interesting point about the concept of large black penises being a myth us

Actually, no. The two are quite different. Greeks maintained their disdain for large cocks regardless of the owner's identity. Regardless if you were Greek or otherwise, a large penis was just not something good to have. In contrast, the "rationalization" to which you're referring was actually part of an intentional vilification of Black men as hypersexual savage animals and an integral part of racist propaganda.

That's just modern societal thinking, bigger is better. The ancients Greeks thought a large penis was vulgar, in some cultures it's a sign of vigour. There's an outline of a chalk man in Dorset called the Cerna Abbas Giant depicting a man with a club and a prominent erection. I'm sure there are many men who think they are better because they were gifted a large penis, it's a somewhat juvenile attitude to have sadly. I've never encountered such issues at gyms and or nude beaches, nude swims or naturist clubs. In the many years I've played sports and showered communally with friends, i

When you can get fully hard in pants/shorts while in public with no worries anyone will notice. My wife enjoys teasing me sometimes by sending me naked pics and x-rated texts while I am playing golf. She asked one time if getting an erection during a round is embarrassing and I told her no because nobody has ever noticed. As long as it isn't sticking straight out (easily adjustable) there is just nothing to see. It never does my game any good though . . . .

@small dick69: Maybe the 'milk man' strikes again?

@jimjimks Your wife summed it up nicely.....she didn't care about the differences, but many men are obsessed by their size. BTW did you go, "WOW, she has small breasts" or didn't really care about her breast size...... Realize penises like other body parts come in a variety of shapes and sizes... knowledge and acceptance the first steps in progress. "Why do I still feel small?" The logical brain knows the truth, in the average range. The emotional brain hasn't accepted yet. I alway think: There is "saying" something is true, there is "believing" something is true and

If your 6.3" is considered small, than my 3.5" is microscopic.. lol

I do wish I were bigger. I've wished that since I was probably 9-10 years old. Its been 35 years or so of wishing. When I was 14 I had a friend that used to jerk off with me. We never touched each other. I think I wanted that way more than he did. We used to sit and look at porn pics that he would download off of different BBS sites. He had a computer with a modem, I did not. One night we were bot pitching tents in our pants and I jokingly said we should just drop our pants and do what we were going to do later....to my surprise he was all in. We were on the swim team together so I'd

"A watched pot never boils." "I have boiled the same amount of water in this kettle sixty-two times. In some cases I have ignored the kettle; in others, I have watched it intently. In every instance, the water reaches its boiling point in precisely 51.7 seconds." - Lt Cmdr Data, Timescape - Oxford Dictionary: Proof (n): evidence or argument establishing or helping to establish a fact or the truth of a statement. Evidence (n): the available body of facts or information indicating whether a belief or proposition is true or valid.

@lloydbaker: Funny enough, the same logic applies to your own assertions. None of us were in ancient Greece, so we can only draw our conclusions from research into what was left behind. From my studies as a sociology major with a concentration in psychology and a minor in diversity and inclusion studies, I've studied a bit in histories of sexuality, and found that evidence that suggests more that the Greeks saw large penises as part of the bodily reflection of the type of mind the owner possessed. They valued the ability to reason very highly, and a large penis was thought to be a sign

I believe I've already posted here about not growing up around my father, so I had no chance to see it. Anything I "know" is minimal and secondhand. I do have a few father figures who I've seen nude, but that's about the closest I've gotten and will get, I imagine.

Yeah, that's what it seems to me as well. The tendon seems to tightly retract the penis. Unless aroused, if you pull on it to get a flaccid stretched length, it is only a couple inches yet when aroused/erect, I am above 5". No idea why.

@SockyFeet: You certainly have a way with words. 👍

I pretty much stick straight out too. Even chamois pads don't seem to help much. As indybankers lady friend saying his shorts are too revealing; he is a male and has a penis. She is female and has breasts. Should they be hidden? Everyone knows you have them, so why try to hide if you are comfortable?

The first time you ever had sex, the girl is riding you. You cum in the condom. She continues to ride you as you become flaccid. After a min she asks if you are ok and you say, yes, I already finnished. She says, oh, I didnt know. (True Stoey)

I feel the same way about it, and while I haven't gone so far as to purposefully practice achieving it, it's definitely buttressed my desire to wait to jerk off until I have several hours free to do so. It's such a difficult experience to articulate, too! Its naturally a combination of several elements, not the least of which is novelty (spend three decades doing anything and it's a lock that you'll be over the moon to discover something new about it ), as well as the "underdog factor" of "coaching" my little buddy cross the finish line despite looking like he's boxing at least three weight cl

You could have one finger amputated, would that work....

I'm straight, and I look, don't mind admitting it either, it's natural to check out others, it's not often we see each other naked. I've had strings of precum quite a few times, not always from being consciously aroused either. Happened a few times when at naturist club after lying in sun, I'm sure a few people have seen it but it's never been mentioned, just be discrete about cleaning up!

Its funny i am 70 years now and i know i am small. In high school we had to swim naked and i do not remember any of the other boys sizes. I do not think i saw a hard on. I know if i had to be there now i would look at all the boys dicks and i would get a hard on. I would have pre cum dripping from my cock. I remember i was in a place people went to be naked, i was talking to a couple, he had a big cock and she had big tits and a hairy bush. I was standing there naked with my small dick, i knew i didnt have a hard on. But when they turned away i looked down and i had pre cum hanging almost to

Saw both my parents naked when I was growing up, it was nothing unusual at home. I accidentally saw my dads penis erect a couple of times and I was fascinated to see the head had emerged. Then it started to happen to me. I think we are about the same size both flaccid & erect although I am sure his was a lot hairier.

Mine is definitely a 1

You know you're small when you accidentally put your thong on backwards and it still keeps you covered.

Clearly women are very concerned about their breast size, shape and firmness. Otherwise there wouldn't be a vast breast augmentation industry. Most likely the small breasted woman at the nude swim DID CARE, but had learned not to obsess about it or, at least, not to show it. Generally, women are concerned about their looks past what would seem to be rational and healthy. Maybe she was dying to get a boob job. Since women are subject to a looks derby and have learned to stand-up to it, they have little patience for men who have so much trouble with it. Basically, she's probably tellin

Well often its the people submitting that classifies them, wrongly And I swear people don't know terms and still post. Hookup sites, guy says he is a TOP, looking for cock to suck and possible get fucked if right person. That is not a top.....

Can a mod change the title of this thread to “without” instead of “withiut”? Sorry to pick nits, but with erections in evidently short supply, what’s a guy to do?

That has also happened to me a few times. I edge for awhile, go flaccid....and then for some reason a fair amount of semen will ooze out of my flaccid penis. It surprises me because it doesn’t really feel like I’m actually ejaculating at all. No pulses or contractions, just my semen coming out. When that happens I usually scoop up as much of my semen as quickly as I can with my fingers and eat it. I then immediately start masturbating again. After I become erect again I start squirting what semen I have left almost immediately. I have never produced a lot of semen though.

I really like the feel of cumming when I am flaccid. It happens once in a while naturally but I would like to be able to do it at will so I have been practicing trying to do it more often. If I get hard I wait a couple minutes till I get flaccid then I continue masturbating.

Your brain. You need a different mindset - and hapyy with what you have - a fully functional, pleasure giver penis.

Straight, but curious, so I have not seen many erect. When I have, my friends in high school and college were bigger. One friend had a monster I saw hard in the shower, and I'm still impressed. In college, however, my girlfriend and I did play with a mutual friend, and it was funny how we both hesitated getting naked. I was drunk so went first, and I saw the relief in his face when he saw my compact package. He was pretty much the same, though cut. I must admit one of the most erotic experiences I have had was having the girl rub us both together. If he had been bigger, I would prob

When we were first married, my wife and I stayed in a hotel room with my mother-in-law. In the morning I tried to get up, but realized I had an erection. It showed quite clearly through my pajamas. I tried to cover up, but she noticed and laughed. "Nothing I haven't seen before!" I stood up and walked to the bathroom, actually a little proud. Years later, she walked in me while I was taking a bath, and I was actually aroused when she clearly looked, even though I am small. I remember bulging a bit. A few years after that, my wife and I swam naked with her whole family on vacation. My

Seems to be quite common to have nude swimming in continental Europe, in my travels most countries there are far more relaxed about nudity and it's seen as no big deal. A very healthy attitude to have, just a shame many countries are heading toward Victorian values.

In Amsterdam we have a few pools were you can swim nude. I go there in the autum and winter. To go to nude places has given me more self confidence. Most guys are not that big. And they never will make comments to guys who are small. So go to a nude beach or pool

You are above average and considered by a lot of women to be the perfect size, so no, if a woman has told you you were then that your near the biggest...well that's probably true as the reality of size is not what porn or other "adds" would have you believe. Most women will interpret your size as bigger than it actually is. A 7-8 inch penis is likened to a monster and time and time again mistaken for being larger, and anything bigger is exceedingly rare. Anyhow, you are right in the best place in terms of size believe it or not. If you see a big cock porn guy with an 8 inch cock, typical

Your size is above average. I think she is telling you the truth.

Erect and in person - I have not seen a smaller one. The first time soft was during my high school years on a summer trip canoeing. Shared a tent with 1 other guy and had to change. He was the same age and probably half-inch smaller than me flaccid.

Nope, no apparent shrinkage for me. I think for lots of guys an increase in abdominal fat makes the dick appear shorter.

What the hell...sure why not wish to be bigger. Perhaps just round up to the next inch. So, 7x6.

No actual physical shrinkage of my flaccid or erect penis yet at 68. Of course it shrinks somewhat with cold water or cold temps. which is completely natural.

That's actually a lot more thoughtful than I imagined. I knew they were foot prints but I didn't realize why they were cockeyed like that. "Discussing men at length" is an award worthy tagline.

I would go so far as to say it is off topic once you make the experience just a data point in an unrelated theory that now serves as the primary subject for your posts. What convinces you that your father's penis size was his particular reason for his demonization of sexuality? Not that I doubt you as you would know better than I would, obviously, but I've seen plenty of men with small penises that have different or completely opposite views of sexuality because of (or irrespective of) their small penis size.

I appreciate the prompt response! The title of this thread no longer makes me grind my jaw.

It's easy to get caught up in the comparison game, sometimes you see a big cock and think "wish I was hung like that". The reality is you have what you have, so all power to you for joining in skinny dipping, its not always easy to do. I've seen many swinging dicks over the years, but when I think about it objectively, they are very much a tiny minority. Most are like myself, small and shriveled, some slightly larger, some slightly smaller.

When you wear girls' panties because they fit your package better