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Masturbation techniques

Sat, 07 Jan 2012 13:17:11 GMT

I bet this has been discussed before, just wanted to throw in my own perspective.

I have always had the same jerking off routine.

1.) Get hard, if you're not already.

2.) Work your way to the brink of orgasm through quite vigorous manipulation of the foreskin against the glans.

3.) Edge for a couple of minutes, either until you accidentally go too far, or until you feel like timing it with the action of the porno, or the pictures in your mind.

I was doing this since forever. I guess I first learned how to get myself off very efficiently, and then felt like prolonging it, thus edging came into play.

I recently discovered "the other way" to jerk off, and I am pleasantly surprised.

Instead of working physically to build orgasm, I simply stroke quite calmly and with regular movements. I let my mind do the work, it gets a lot of imagination into play.

Also, instead of edging there's mental acrobatics going on. Before I simply stopped jerking for a few seconds a millisecond before I orgasm, thus prolonging it. Now, I keep the regular rhythm going, and trust my mind to make me step down a few rungs on the orgasm ladder. I guess this is what guys mean when they "think about football".

Simply stopping isn't really an option when there's a partner, so controlling orgasm even if there is physical stimulation going on should be a good thing to know.

I find this way much more stimulating and entertaining. When edging I can get really exhausted and sore, the orgasm get far less intense.
When masturbating more regularly, and mentally more than physically controlling orgasm, there's really only one steep climb at the end and it gets pretty awesome, powerful and intense.

I guess it's mental edging vs tactile edging?

Touch Practice

Thu, 05 Jan 2012 04:34:32 GMT

One of the guys in the chatroom (thank you, Matt!) shared this link with me. It really parallels much of what I've long thought about men's need for contact -- that a high percentage of men today crave it, while not realizing it, and that intimacy isn't necessarily sexual.

I'm interested in what opinions/responses to this.

Touch Practice

Scott
SLC, UT

30 Things to Stop Doing to Yourself

Fri, 16 Dec 2011 10:03:26 GMT

(I'm posting the top 11, plus a pair that apply to penis size. But they're all worth trying.)

Marc and Angel Hack Life
Practical Tips for Productive Living
DECEMBER 11TH, 2011 @ 4:30 PM BY: MARC

30 Things to Stop Doing to Yourself

When you stop chasing the wrong things you give
the right things a chance to catch you.

As Maria Robinson once said, “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” Nothing could be closer to the truth. But before you can begin this process of transformation you have to stop doing the things that have been holding you back.

Here are some ideas to get you started:
1.
Stop spending time with the wrong people. – Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. And remember, it’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.
2
Stop running from your problems. – Face them head on. No, it won’t be easy. There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every punch thrown at them. We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems. That’s not how we’re made. In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall. Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time. This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.
3.
Stop lying to yourself. – You can lie to anyone else in the world, but you can’t lie to yourself. Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves. Read The Road Less Traveled.
4.
Stop putting your own needs on the back burner. – The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too. Yes, help others; but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
5.
Stop trying to be someone you’re not. – One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyone else. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger, but they will never be you. Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.
6.
Stop trying to hold onto the past. – You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one.
7.
Stop being scared to make a mistake. – Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing. Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. You end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.
8.
Stop berating yourself for old mistakes. – We may love the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us. We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past. But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future. Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
9.
Stop trying to buy happiness. – Many of the things we desire are expensive. But the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free – love, laughter and working on our passions.
Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness. – If you’re not happy with who you are on the inside, you won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either. You have to create stability in your own life first before you can share it with someone else. Read Stumbling on Happiness.
10.
Stop being idle. – Don’t think too much or you’ll create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first place. Evaluate situations and take decisive action. You cannot change what you refuse to confront. Making progress involves risk. Period! You can’t make it to second base with your foot on first.
11.
Stop thinking you’re not ready. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.
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14.
Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work. – In life you’ll realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.
15.
Stop trying to compete against everyone else. – Don’t worry about what others doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records every day. Success is a battle between YOU and YOURSELF only.
16.
Stop being jealous of others. – Jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own. Ask yourself this: “What’s something I have that everyone wants?”
17.
Stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself. – Life’s curveballs are thrown for a reason – to shift your path in a direction that is meant for you. You may not see or understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be tough. But reflect back on those negative curveballs thrown at you in the past. You’ll often see that eventually they led you to a better place, person, state of mind, or situation. So smile! Let everyone know that today you are a lot stronger than you were yesterday, and you will be.

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My Son's Cup Fits Me

Sun, 16 Oct 2011 09:24:34 GMT

Pretty bad when a small youth cup fits me as an adult. He needed a cup to protect "the boys" in sports. I went and got him a youth small that is for ages 9-12. He wanted me to try it on and I found out it fits me.

by the urinal.....

Fri, 02 Sep 2011 06:22:39 GMT

Hi guys.
While peeing by a urinal yesterday, I was looking at the diversity of ways guys stand during business. Some were totally leaning against the wall while some were standing quite away from the urinal. They were large separators between them so it couldn't be that the latter were trying to show anything.

I tend to stand straight up, with my dick just above the tip of the urinal. How do you stand guys?

Poll for all guys regardless of size

Mon, 15 Aug 2011 01:16:16 GMT

Regardless of your penis size -- small, medium, or large -- please vote in the attached poll and leave any comments you wish. Thanks, guys!

Having shared her

Sat, 06 Aug 2011 02:27:11 GMT

Have any of you guys had sex with a woman who had also had sex with a brother or good friend of yours before she had sex with you?

If so, did she ever talk about how the two of you guys compared (size and what you did with her)?

If so, did you and the other guy ever talk about how sex was with her and what you guys did with her?

(And did the other guy you're talking about have a dick that was smaller than yours, about the same size as yours, larger than yours, or do you not know his size?)

Lots of questions here but this could be an interesting topic I think.

(I for one have not had this experience.)

Small dick makes receiving B/J undesirable

Thu, 26 May 2011 10:25:06 GMT

In another forum, lloydbaker Said:

I've never liked to receive oral much either as it makes me aware of how small I am. Generally, my penis is totally engulfed effortless. Not a big turn-on.

This is just one gay man's reaction to Lloyd's not being turned on when he receives a blowjob because of his size.

The sensitive nerve endings on various parts of the penis can be spread out over the large surface area of a big dick or compacted into the smaller area of a smaller dick. If I can comfortably engulf a guy's entire penis in my mouth and still have room to move my tongue around, I can access and stimulate every one of those nerve endings. I can feel, as well as hear, his reaction to everything I do to him. And I can focus on doing the things that excite him the most. I don't have to stop to swallow my own saliva. I can move forward and back without ever completely releasing him to be able to breathe. I can completely avoid causing pain with my teeth. I can concentrate on doing my best to give him exquisite pleasure. And as a gay man, being able to do that to a guy whom I like really turns me on.

So I really enjoy sex with a guy Lloyd's size. I just hope any guy I'm with is not turned off by seeing his whole dick disappear into my eager mouth. That would defeat the whole point of the encounter.

Alan G

Libido and Menopause

Mon, 16 May 2011 16:14:45 GMT

Anyone have any ideas on how to increase a woman's libido destroyed by menopause? We have a good marriage, and she's a beautiful woman in every other way. Sex is provided out of obligation rather than because she desires me. Most of the time, it feels like she is not all that involved in the love making. This has caused a bit of an ED problem. I believe it is the psychological effect of not feeling desired by her. Hormone therapy is not a consideration because of the link to breast cancer. She agreed to schedule a testosterone test to see if that could be a factor.

Thanks.

T.A.D.S.

Fri, 08 Apr 2011 23:11:18 GMT

This is a great little treatise on Guys and Touch.

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How would you react??