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@Lukeow you know even taking the comparison to porn out of the picture. Someone with a small penis will see in art classes or a biology text book. And those will all be above average commonly this will also feed the misconception of having a hung penis is normal. I for one remember my biology book had a man with a 4in or so hanging penis and knowing the ones in porn are abnormal I figured this was a normal look. So I would still think my my retracted penis was abnormal and small. It is a idea that has taken a long time to overcome within myself even so it still gets to me on occasions😔

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 Luke, I believe most of your problems are emotional. Not sure how to help you, other than recommend some psychiatric counseling. If I do bone pressed, jamming the ruler so herd into me that its about to brake, I can SOMETIMES get to 4 & 3/8ths. Regular measuring with what might actually be fuckable with gives me 3.625. Soft I am usuallu barely an inch. You are HUGE compared to many. Have you considered looking for professionaly help ? Your problems are all between the ears. Sorry.   CLS

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7 hours ago, Appreciater said:

don't care What Size a person's size is... I think they are all Awesome... but so many don't seem to believe my words.😐

Some choose not to believe and then have the audacity to question your integrity.

 

8 hours ago, wondering4 said:

Not fair.  He has changed his analysis to comparisons with the "sexually active".  Yeah, the science is correct, but the "science" hasn't broken out the sexually active, that is those involved in competitive recreational sex from the rest.

Competitive recreation sex.....geez back in high school.

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15 hours ago, Lukeow said:

If the science was 100%, or even close to it, I would expect to see some correlation to it.  What I then get told is small samples are not reliable, or that smaller penis owners hide them, or that it’s about the perception with which I view my own penis vs the penis’ of others, or that the only people who show their penis on the internet are large (dinkydick flies in the face of that one).

You skip that those guys active in recreational sex ARE larger than you.  They are probably more attractive in OTHER physically ways also.  SO!  You are correct to view yourself somewhat handicapped in THAT arena, but not so for finding a sex partner, lover, wife with the requisite, reasonable effort.

You probably SHOULDN'T feel confident in that arena.

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9 hours ago, canuck45 said:

Some choose not to believe and then have the audacity to question your integrity.

Competitive recreation sex.....geez back in high school.

Many stay in that mode vastly longer than high school.  I'm not advocating it.

Probably most are attracted to competitive recreational sex, but, especially if not suited on penile and other fronts, decide eventually it is not for them.  It is similar that young men might pursue professional sports dreams, but finally admit they are unsuited.  

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On 1/20/2023 at 9:12 PM, wondering4 said:

especially if not suited on penile and other fronts,

Just like in sports, might be the fastest, strongest, quickest, smartest....use the talents you have to succeed.
Don't see too many 300lb wide receivers...or 150lb defensive tackles but both play football.

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On 1/20/2023 at 9:04 AM, Deik said:

@Lukeow you know even taking the comparison to porn out of the picture. Someone with a small penis will see in art classes or a biology text book. And those will all be above average commonly this will also feed the misconception of having a hung penis is normal. I for one remember my biology book had a man with a 4in or so hanging penis and knowing the ones in porn are abnormal I figured this was a normal look. So I would still think my my retracted penis was abnormal and small. It is a idea that has taken a long time to overcome within myself even so it still gets to me on occasions😔

Flaccid penis size has nothing to do with anything except maybe how much a person's penis retracts. Some guys have loose hanging balls and others always have tight balls. So anyone that makes any assumptions based on flaccid size is a fool. Therefore why should you worry about what a fool thinks?

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@NuderThanNude yes I was clearly a fool as a young man but it took a while to realize this. Without better more normal examples to compare with it was easy for one to fall into that trap. It has take a while to realize that a retracted dick is normal as there was no mentioning of it or acknowledgement of the wide variety of differences everyone's genital can have. Health or biology classes should make more mention of such varieties as it can lead to a path of insecurity and confusion for youths during that time of self development and self discovery. I never realized that my retracted dick was normal under I was probably mid 20's.

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3 hours ago, Appreciater said:

@Wookieboy ......

Thank goodness, it's a truth that many of us can and do choose to ignore as being the rules of life.   To hell with those who choose to overlord, for whatever imagined rule in feelings of superiority. 

But does it not give you a sense of relief - you don’t need to question “am I big enough to give pleasure?” Or be nervous about peeing at urinals next to other men or worry about how you look in shorts or swimwear, etc?  
 

You might be a kind and sensitive man who doesn’t feel the need to lord over those less endowed, but mentally you are in a better position and consciously or subconsciously you must be aware of it?

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@Lukeow .....

My conscious thoughts are on looking too full in front most of the time.   May sound strange to some, but I don't want to always be so obvious that it draws everyone's eyes continuously.   I've come to deal with it, but I don't always like it   ....   Sometimes people looking is ok in public and not overwhelming to me, but definitely not always easy knowing that they are staring at my crotch.  ....   There's always two sides to a coin.

(Excuse me Lukeow... this was in response to Wookieboy)

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14 hours ago, Wookieboy said:

The painful truth is IT DOES MATER or we wouldn't even have this forum. You can spend energy disagreeing with it but to most of the world it is still a reality.

Wookieboy - I usually don't, but I have to agree with you on this one. SIZE DOES MATTER TO ME also. As I have to admit... I LOVE BEING SMALL!

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1 minute ago, Appreciater said:

@NuderThanNude ....

Everyone has a niche where they fit in life... Somewhere.  🙂

Agreed - That is because we all have different strengths and weaknesses. Frustration in life comes from obsessing over wanting a strength you don't possess. Damn, why can't I be a star football player!:hoppingmad:

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 the root of all suffering is attachment to desire
 

  1. Life means suffering.
  2. The origin of suffering is attachment.
  3. The cessation of suffering is attainable.



Rational: the ability to think with reason. It encompasses the ability to draw sensible conclusions from facts, logic and data. In simple words, if your thoughts are based on facts and not emotions, it is called rational thinking

Of course, the facts and data could be "wrong" (misrepresented, incomplete, false) so even rational thinking can be in error or needs revision.

 

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1 hour ago, Appreciater said:

@canuck45 .....

It can also be: 

1. Life is suffering

2. The origin of suffering is birth

3. The cession of suffering is death

Such a pleasant prospect.

No thats not the way the 4 Noble Truths go.
Besides if you happen to be of certain religionous beliefs, you could suffer for eternal suffering and damnation in hell.

 

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On 1/28/2023 at 2:34 PM, canuck45 said:

Of course, the facts and data could be "wrong" (misrepresented, incomplete, false) so even rational thinking can be in error or needs revision.

This is true which is why sometimes as new information becomes available we need to continue to refine our thinking. However that is generally the exception and not the rule. Most times when working with information that is self evident, accurate conclusions can be drawn. Often when a situation is in a gray area and difficult to comprehend I like to carry it to an extreme. It's like using a magnifying glass.
 

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