showing your bulge

[Lukeow]

26 minutes ago, Appreciater said:

@Lukeow

Some of us with bulges...

Have No Choice

The same as those who don't

I’m sure there are ways to cover it up.

[Lukeow]

And thanks @RodEnuf for standing up for the smaller penis’. 

[lean]

7 hours ago, Franc181 said:

If I had your package. I would wear shorter shirts. lol

And tighter shorts! LOL

[Guest]

Us underendowed must learn to accept we will have a lower status in the eyes of most or many.  We can reject that status judgement or accept it.  Neither reaction on our part is very pleasing.  Rejecting everyone lionizing large genitals (similar to the lionizing of large shapely breasts on women) alienates us from people in general.  Accepting the lower status judgement isn't pleasant either.

Edited September 17, 2022 by wondering4

[Lukeow]

46 minutes ago, wondering4 said:

Us underendowed must learn to accept we will have a lower status in the eyes of most or many.  We can reject that status judgement or accept it.  Neither reaction on our part is very pleasing.  Rejecting everyone lionizing large genitals (similar to the lionizing of large shapely breasts on women) alienates us from people in general.  Accepting the lower status judgement isn't pleasant either.

Large breasts are a thing of the past, no? I think women have done a remarkable job to challenge the body shaming that used to be commonplace for them.  We need to do the same.  It’s time to start replacing big cocks with average and smaller cocks everywhere - including porn.

[Appreciater]

@Lukeow

Sorry... But you seem to be a Hopeless case... 🤨

[Appreciater]

@wondering4

I have stated over and over... To me.. your equipment is just as important, good looking, and desirable as Any.  ..  I understand your concern, but I don't think the majority of the world is against you.  It's the few assholes who made it seem so...as well as self doubt.   Those who are rude to you in any way, are not worth the time of day.   The same as those who are rude to those for being larger.

I now have the feeling, for the most part, that I am not welcomed at this site any longer.  Sorry if I have caused pain or problems here.   Was Not My Intentions At All.

Edited September 17, 2022 by Appreciater

[Guest]

4 hours ago, Appreciater said:

@wondering4

I understand your concern, but I don't think the majority of the world is against you.  .....Those who are rude to you in any way, are not worth the time of day.

No.  You know better than that.  Sure rude adults are few, but the majority thinks less of the small and problems of the large are not comparable.

[Guest]

5 hours ago, Lukeow said:

Large breasts are a thing of the past, no? 

No.  Pressure to hold ones tongue does nothing to change attitudes.

[Lukeow]

3 hours ago, wondering4 said:

No.  You know better than that.  Sure rude adults are few, but the majority thinks less of the small and problems of the large are not comparable.

Amen!! It’s nice to have someone who actually agrees with me here.  

[Lukeow]

3 hours ago, wondering4 said:

No.  Pressure to hold ones tongue does nothing to change attitudes.

I’ve never been a fan of large breasts personally.  I actually think there are more smaller breasts and real breasts on display in Hollywood than there are normal smaller flaccid penis’ displayed on screen.  That’s been the case for a good while. Also in porn, lots of smaller breasted women, but very few smaller/average cocks?

[Lukeow]

8 hours ago, Appreciater said:

@Lukeow

Sorry... But you seem to be a Hopeless case... 🤨

Really? Why is that? Because I’m here hoping to challenge the rhetoric and presentation of penis’ in society? Because I have a huge issues and insecurity around size disparity and the presentation of larger penis’s as being admirable, enviable, desirable, more pleasurable? 

 

Am I hopeless merely because I won’t shrug my shoulders and say “ the studies say I’m average, so I’m happy with my penis and the way it is viewed in the world” ?! 

If that is the case then, yeah, I am hopeless because I simply won’t do that.  Not just for myself but because of  all the other guys in my position.

 

 

 

[canuck45]

Hopeless for ever changing your attitude?
Hopeless because you are a "don't give me facts my mind is already made up" person?
Hopeless, because you don't believe anything that doesn't agree with your "beliefs"?
Hopeless, because you keep arguing the same shit over and over, as if your anecdotes refute the science?
Hopeless, because you can't distinguish real facts from your biased beliefs?
Hopeless, because doctors and researchers worldwide are lying to make smaller guys feel better, a global conspiracy no doubt?
 

1 hour ago, Lukeow said:

I actually think there are more smaller breasts and real breasts on display in Hollywood than...

What you "think" is irrelevant.  Can you back it up with a "real" study (not YOURE observations).
The ' was left out on purpose because some people  "think" it's useless.

Speaking of thinking: "using rational thought or rational judgment; intelligent."
Saying I "think" is meaningless when in actually no rational thought went into it.

Trump "thinks" he is the greatest ever.  He isn't
Over 3 million Americans "think" the earth is flat. It isn't
I "think" leprechauns are real. They aren't.
You "think" the  experts are lying and the average is larger than 5.5".  It's not.

Of course these are rational statements, illustrating the difference between "thinking" and babbling BS,  so you will ignore them.

Hence @Appreciater might conclude Hopeless.
 

 

1 hour ago, Lukeow said:

Not just for myself but because of  all the other guys in my position.

BS, it's all about you and nothing else.  You're beliefs, you're bias, you're experience, you're denial of the facts, you're wallowing, you're "the world is wrong and I am right" BS.  
All the other guys in your position should also be seeing a psychologist.

But hell you should be ecstatic, look at all the attention your getting and no doubt a small following of  "blind to the truth" acolytes.
One might "think" you have NPD or CTS


 

Edited September 17, 2022 by canuck45

[Guest]

3 hours ago, Lukeow said:

Amen!! It’s nice to have someone who actually agrees with me here.  

I agree in spots only!

[Guest]

2 hours ago, Lukeow said:

Really? Why is that? Because I’m here hoping to challenge the rhetoric and presentation of penis’ in society? Because I have a huge issues and insecurity around size disparity and the presentation of larger penis’s as being admirable, enviable, desirable, more pleasurable? 

 

Am I hopeless merely because I won’t shrug my shoulders and say “ the studies say I’m average, so I’m happy with my penis and the way it is viewed in the world” ?! 

If that is the case then, yeah, I am hopeless because I simply won’t do that.  Not just for myself but because of  all the other guys in my position.

I wish I was average.  If I were average, I'd wish I was reasonably more than average.  But, I'd believe scientific evidence of average.

[Guest]

3 hours ago, Lukeow said:

I’ve never been a fan of large breasts personally.  I actually think there are more smaller breasts and real breasts on display in Hollywood than there are normal smaller flaccid penis’ displayed on screen.  That’s been the case for a good while. Also in porn, lots of smaller breasted women, but very few smaller/average cocks?

"Lionizing" is the issue, not counting numbers displayed.  Fake ones are lionized, too, just like fake large cocks would be if they were possible.

Edited September 17, 2022 by wondering4

[Guest]

On 9/16/2022 at 4:17 PM, Vinnig said:

@Appreciater My friend in Phoenix wears sweats and no underwear at home in cooler weather, but always puts on boxers when he goes out in public to be less noticeable.

Really?  Well, when I lived in Phoenix (actually, Chandler, then Mesa, and finally Apache Junction - before it was a city), I almost never wore anything at home!  This was in the mid to late seventies.  I guess I wasn't really "showing a bulge" though, because I didn't have much of one when I was dressed, and naked everything was hanging free anyway - plus the only witnesses were my room mates, when I had them.

[Guest]

11 minutes ago, CuriousNow said:

Really?  Well, when I lived in Phoenix ...

OH, and another thing.  About the only time I can remember wearing anything that really revealed the shape of my glans, for example, was the mandatory Speedos for swimming at my school in England.  But my "bulge" was that of a 13 and 14 year old (don't remember swim class when I was 15) so using the term "bulge" may have been a bit optimistic.  "Bump" may have been more accurate.  The rest of my life it's been mostly jeans and occasional slacks, none of which were all that tight.

Frankly, I don't recall ever being that concerned about my bulge or lack thereof.  It just wasn't on my radar, so to speak.  I only became aware of my smaller size when I got older and realized I was getting smaller.  But - I don't care.  I hate to see others here so wrapped up about it.  But, everyone has their own take on it, I suppose.

[mrpenguin]

I don't need to have a bulge per se. I just like it if you can tell I have at least something there. You can tell I have dick and balls. Never big enough to really distract anyone. 

[bellend07]

I apologise if i have offended anyone for showing my bulge in this forum. the photo's have now been removed. 

[Lukeow]

20 hours ago, wondering4 said:

"Lionizing" is the issue, not counting numbers displayed.  Fake ones are lionized, too, just like fake large cocks would be if they were possible.

Of course the lionising is the issue, thus the numbers displayed increase to feed the lionising - the more attention and admiration larger cocks get, the more they are thrust into the limelight, the more they are lionised…. rinse and repeat. One feeds the other.  
 

Normalising of smaller penis’ and lack of bulges, to bring it back to topic, requires less attention to (and focus on) the larger extreme.  To be average or smaller should be normalised and the focus should be across the spectrum, with greater admiration for sizes that supposedly represent the vast majority of the global penis population.  That is the only way the larger cocks stop getting all the positive press and attention.  Society needs to normalise the supposedly normal sizes. 

[Guest]

1 hour ago, Lukeow said:

Normalising of smaller penis’ and lack of bulges, to bring it back to topic, requires less attention to (and focus on) the larger extreme.  To be average or smaller should be normalised and the focus should be across the spectrum, with greater admiration for sizes that supposedly represent the vast majority of the global penis population.  That is the only way the larger cocks stop getting all the positive press and attention.  Society needs to normalise the supposedly normal sizes. 

Nah.  People would just miss seeing the large.

[lean]

On 9/18/2022 at 6:49 AM, bellend07 said:

I apologise if i have offended anyone for showing my bulge in this forum. the photo's have now been removed. 

You've never offended anybody. You've got a bulge I don't. It is what it is.

[Guest]

Hey, people automatically think a larger dick will displace more during penetration and be more impressive, more sexual.  People don't want to be normal, they want to be above normal.  Competition regarding dicks for status is like competition about anything else.  People want to be a star or at least better than average.  The weird thing about dicks is that genitals are usually hidden in public except for "bulges."

 

Edited September 19, 2022 by wondering4

[new2day]

Wouldn't say I've ever tried to show off my bulge intentionally, but I'm certainly not shy or bothered what anyone thinks when I'm out and about. I cycle sometimes and wear Lycra shorts, so yes you can see I have a penis, and sometimes I have seen people stop and look when I stop for a coffee. I used to wear Speedo's at the local pool when I was swimming laps with male and female friends, I have mentioned here that a female friend said she could see I was circumcised due to the outline.

It's something we all have, and there's no shame in showing something natural.