Is it odd that I like small penises?

[Smalldonglover]

Is it odd that I'm a submissive\Bottom that's really turned on by them.

I'm honestly unsure why I feel this way but I've always found them arousing honestly...I'll never understand why society hates men that are less endowed I personally would prefer a man that was less endowed.

 

 

 

 

 

 

[bellend07]

Well good for you. a penis is a penis, enjoy them all.

[zebraben]

I think its a choice of how people feel.myself I use to say I look around in locker rooms when I use to go to swim or play racquetball.i told myself I'm just comparing sizes. I guess I like big and small cause the dick does not make the man.any ways.but then I don't know much bout the subject any ways just how I feel.so I agree a dick is a dick.

[topdog]

It's uncommon but not odd to like small ones: I certainly do - I've always found smaller penises to be MUCH more erotic, and my initial reason for joining Measurection was to meet smaller guys!

 

However, people I talk to about it seem to think it's odd because of the prevailing cultural idea that 'bigger is better', so I'm forever being asked 'why?', whereas if liked big ones I don't think anyone would ask that question. Of course I don't have a clue 'why', it's one of those stupid questions like 'why are you gay?' - it's not a choice, so I don't know, it's just the way I feel about stuff.

 

I often joke that I'm an inverse size queen: every inch a guy has under 6" (yes, I know that's not the true average but work with me here) is like an inch above for most people, so as far as I'm concerned a 4" penis is as hot as an 8-incher, and if you've got a 3-inch penis, why then you should be doing porn! I'd certainly buy it!

 

So, for me personally, size is important and it's pretty much the smaller the better. Having said that, I agree with Ben that it isn't everything, and it's just one of the things that makes a man attractive for me. My husband's average/thick and I like his dick just fine, and I've had a lot of fun with average and large guys too.

[RodEnuf]

As a gay man who likes to give oral sex, my feeling is that more than a mouthful is both uncomfortable and intimidating.

 

 

Alan G

[topdog]

Ach, there's nothing like a bit of motivation to help, you cocksucker!

 

Just like there's a knack to fucking with a small one, there's a knack for blowing a big one - it's all a matter of skill. And motivation!

 

Having said that, you're right that you can usually do more tricks with a small one as you can move it round your mouth more easily, so a bit of banjo-playing or palate-rubbing is fairly straightforward, I admit, whereas it can be tricky with a bigger one. But when did 'tricky' ever stop people from getting it on?

[that_wombat]

Oops! First time posting. Don't know what I'm doing

Edited December 29, 2016 by Guest

[that_wombat]

It's good news for someone like me. I'm very small. Maybe we should get in touch

[Red Scott]

We like what we like, what "does it" for one won't necessarily do it for another and we can't help what turns us on! Does it make you strange or unusual? Not at all! Personally I prefer the more modest to average penis and the hung guys simply don't turn me on as much.

 

The huge ones I find a bit of a turn off to be honest, they look ridiculous sometimes, kinda cartoony and out of proportion and simply don't have the aesthetic beauty of the modest to average. Once they go beyond the 7.5" mark they become less and less appealing to me!

[topdog]

God, you're all such a bunch of picky bitches! Sure, I like the small ones, but as long as a guy has a penis and a pulse I'm up for giving it a try!

[Red Scott]

Ha ha, yours is fine matey! If it looks nice and I like the guy I'll give it a try, I wouldn't turn anyone away on (too large) size alone.

[billinny]

Have to say: starting at age 7, I loved feeling same age penises, getting mine felt by same and older cousins; getting to feel theirs; into teens, even better with both same age and younger cousins and younger tent mates on camping trips. A penis is a penis, and regardless of size, feels damn good getting played with!

[Smalldonglover]

I'd love to!

Whatever way you'd like to keep in touch is fine by me!)

Edited December 30, 2016 by Guest

[that_wombat]

You can email me that_wombat@hotmail.com if you like!

 

[topdog]

Get a room!

[Guest]

Of course I don't have a clue 'why', it's one of those stupid questions like 'why are you gay?' - it's not a choice, so I don't know, it's just the way I feel about stuff.

 

Ah yes, the "death of psychoanalysis" and its replacement with unknowable genetic/environmental determinism.

 

[topdog]

Well, no. To be fair, all psychoanalytic-type methods which attempt to locate the 'cause' of sexuality in childhood events have failed to pass the test of evidence, i.e. there is no childhood, or set of childhoods, that can be shown to cause or even favour homosexuality.

 

And the genetic evidence is very scant also, so I tend to treat the origin of sexuality as currently unknown, and put my liking for small dicks in the same category as, like my sexuality, I didn't choose it and can't see any reason why it should be so: I was not, for example, attacked by a giant penis in early life, giving me a lifelong fear of them and making me resort to little ones as the only ones that don't terrify me!

[bigforsmall]

Are you male or female may I ask?.

[Red Scott]

Are you male or female may I ask?.

 

Top-dog is a male, a gay male, hence his like of penises!

 

Though I must add you don't have to be gay to like penises, I'm bi and clearly like penises and even straight guys can like penises!

 

The liking of more modest penises comes down to individual taste, there are, contrary to popular belief, women out there whom also like the more modest size for various reasons.

[Paul130]

more than a mouthful is both uncomfortable and intimidating.

 

 

Alan G

 

And more than a handful's a waste.

 

[Hot Showers]

While I like dicks of all sizes, I tend to agree that huge ones are not as aesthetically pleasing to me as are moderate and smaller ones.

 

One aspect of small ones in the flaccid state that turns me on is that they end to stick out, giving you a direct "head on" view of the head, including the full pee slit. I also like that my own penis has this extra level of exposure when I'm in the open shower or walking around the locker room.

[joey123]

We're all turned on by different things. To each their own.

 

That said, in ancient Greece they supposedly glamorized the smaller ones.

[bigforsmall]

I've only just come across this Scott!.

 

Frankly I find navigation here a little difficult at times,largely because the site architecture seems to date from the early age of computing!.

 

This may also explain why I appear to have asked a question the answer to which is quite honestly bloody obvious- especially considering that I first went into a gay bar some time in early 1987 ( remember them back then?.We were practically wetting ourselves both on terror of the ladies in the self- segregated dyke bar, and also because we had to go through it to reach the gents!).I think I actually meant to ask an entirely different member this same question.

 

But I digress.The point I wanted to make, jumping off from what Top said- all of which I complexly agree with- is that maybe the great detective Sherlock Holmes can help us here!.

 

As you may know, Holmes once said that "[Once you eliminate the impossible, then whatever remains, however improbable,must be the truth".

 

Well maybe that can help us here.Once we discount impossible causation and etiology for our preference- for instance being chased by a giant penis with legs as Top says- then it may be the case that in the end we are left with the answer we like small penises because they are actually objectivly better than big ones ,however improbable people may find this!.

 

 

Edited June 30, 2017 by Guest

[Red Scott]

That last sentence is an interesting one and is plenty food for thought and also a good point to debate. I'd agree with the notion but I have little experience of big penises. This renders my agreement as a simple opinion.

[Steve W]

Interesting Red. I feel almost as I have been singled out to experience whopper after whopper. Although statistically I am supposed to be smack in the middle of average sized, I can't tell you the number of 8 inchers I have been exposed to over the course of my life. Certainly more than the scientific literature would predict. It's kind of my karma: I am attracted to them and intimidated by them, and I find them everywhere.

 

Recently I made a decision to split from my long-term partner. It's amicable, but the reason is really that he no longer wanted sex (medical issue), and I am still as horny as a goat. I put myself on some gay dating apps and wham, I found I was much more popular than I would ever have thought. A lot of the guys contacting me are above-average and a few are very large. One or two are huge. I haven't noticed too many average sized guys around, at least from the ones who have really pursued me.

 

This always causes a lot of anxiety, and can affect the quality of my erections. I always think the other people are disappointed or turned off by what I've got, and I can't say those words to them or they will really be turned off. So I am constantly living in a secret world of embarrassment and self-doubt. It's no fun.

 

And yes, I'm in therapy and yes I have been talking about this with my therapist and yes I have been trying to get over it on my own. It's not working. Thinking seriously about having the op myself so I will be able to exorcise my self-critic. There is definitely a voice in my head that absolutely hates the way I look.

Edited July 1, 2017 by Guest