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How much of your cock is useless?

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I found on the web a drawing of penis sizes and how much is useless from the perspective of vaginal sex. It's an interesting analysis. There are guys with cocks in the range this shows as having several inches wasted because it can't be used in sex. They have to hold back from going all the way --- i.e., there's a limit as to how much can go in and basically you hit a brick wall. That can be frustrating. Perhaps accounts for one of the reasons extra-large dicked guys like to be the top in anal sex. There's a deeper hole there. shocked.gif

 

As for us shorter guys in the 4 inch range 100% of our cocks are required in sex and there's no holding back. From a gay perspective, I have talked with lots of guys and a good many think that a shorter cock in the less than 6 inch range is ideal for both anal and oral sex. Depends on the person, of course --- barring all size queens and other undesirables, but seriously talking about the matter reveals a preference for the average to less than average.

 

PS -- I don't want any comments from Ulcaster about how his whole dick is useless. lol.gif Dude, it's your mind that's useless, not your dick. cool.gif

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It's an interesting chart indeed.

 

I actually do feel like having an "extra" two or three inches, like the chart suggests.

 

I think 8" is the maximum size if you don't want to have any limitations with sex. Anything bigger is definitely unpractical during sex. Sometimes 8" can be too big too, depending on your sex partner.

 

What I cannot see, is that the minimum requirement for vaginal sex is 5", I think the chart says 3" is enough too. The chart probably means that anything over 5" is more than required, and anything under 5" is ok.

 

Jason Bond

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Along these same lines, how many times have we seen porn where the "blower" only takes about 3 inches into his/her mouth, and the rest is wasted. Granted, there are exceptions for the deep-throaters, but most suckers wrap their fist around the shaft and just take a few inches into their mouths.

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I think the chart says 3" is enough too. The chart probably means that anything over 5" is more than required, and anything under 5" is ok.

 

Right Jason. Someone else here was trying to put words in my mouth...mmmm. Anyhoo, I was trying to say what Jason just said above.

 

I would think 3 to 4 inches or more is adequate for vaginal sex. But you know and I know there are those out there who are greedy and seemingly just want to be filled to the rim with brim. Remember that coffee commercial? lol.gif

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Yep. Green is good. Otherwise there would be a red zone on the bottom. ...Where do you get those wonderful charts?

 

(Yes, I remember the brim comercials and how my mom would glare at my dad for giving her the dirty thoughts on it. All he did was wiggle his brow once. flirt.gif: blush.gif )

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I'm just an average guy with a little bit over six inches and I've found that some women like it when I "hit reef". It feels like none of my dick is being wasted. When things really start to get hot and heavy they really start hammering my guy with the back of their vagina. It can get painful for me but I usually pop before it gets too bad. It actually helps prolong my erection and really adds to the sensation and enjoy the discomfort. It makes me feel like I've got a big dick.

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I too like the bottoming out sensation as does my girlfriend.

It seems when I hit bottom and hit her cervix it makes the feeling more intense for her and does prolong my staying power. She is able to do a manuever that bounces my head off her cervix like a maching gun, nice.

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I don't understand how this chart makes you feel inadequate. This chart helps us understand that anything over 5 inches is extra and anything over 9 inches is useless. It doesn't make me feel inadequate and I am in the category of being less than 5 inches.

 

I think some of us just want any excuse to feel inadequate. I will tell you my personal opinion. I feel very fortunate that I have a thicker than average cock and to me ---- my lack of length is evened out because I have more girth than most guys do. The combination makes for a very nice looking and appealing cock.

 

I think those of us who have such a hard time accepting themselves and their size is basically because theirs is both short and thin. To be one or the other is ok, but to be both is a double whammy. But, the fact is that you can't do much about it. The only thing you can do is some penis exercises (jelqing?) which may or may not help and you can reduce your fat pad with diet and exercise.

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I think those of us who have such a hard time accepting themselves and their size is basically because theirs is both short and thin. To be one or the other is ok, but to be both is a double whammy.

 

You hit the nail on the head there.

 

I wouldn't mind being short if I was thick, or being long and thin. One or the other--as you said--wouldn't be so bad.

 

I even went to the urologist to see what sort of surgery he could do to fix me. He said he wouldn't do anything as he doesn't trust the techniques involved.

 

Anyway, I apologize for any possible thread-hijacking. Please, let's return to the original intent of this thread.

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Fallout -- fill out more of your profile and let's see what we can do to help fix you up. Surgery is definitely out. But there's other methods --- the one that works is working on your attitude and confidence. cool.gif

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If that is what the chart said then it would start at 5" as being required up to say 7" and then extra. What is required is everything up to 5" not a minumum of 5". The only 'useless' section on the chart is at the large end of the scale....the extra that can't be used...read the chart as it is written not as a putdown to confirm your fears LOL It does NOT say less than 5" is useless.

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In the last few weeks I have been with two men who love my cock. That has been the greatest boost to my confidence ever. MR has helped me a lot to reach out to take a chance & hope. No matter what size you are, how thin you are, how small you are. If you can find someone who is happy with your penis then embrace that. It wasn't easy for me to show myself to them, especially when they are both bigger than I am, & thicker. They both made me feel special. Neither of them made me feel inadequate, or that my penis was useless, just the opposite.

 

I know this chart relates to men & women, & women's vaginas are different then gay men, but it is the same principal really.

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Hi Ethan!! smile.gif

 

[and all the rest of you guys - too - of course]

 

I hope you're OK.

 

Let's keep in mind that this IS just someone's OPINION.

 

And in MY opinion - I find it hard to believe that most women would consider a nearly 10" erection just 'more of a good thing'. In fact - for many women - a 4" erection is TOO MUCH.

 

GREAT BIG HUG

Craig!! smile.gif

 

PS See my new BLOG!!

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Canada Craig I am so glad you are back with us again!

 

Yes, you are right. One person's opinion. That's what we are discussing. Each of us represent one person's opinion. I don't see in the chart what you are saying. I see something that reinforces the fact that we don't need longer penises. As I said too --- I myself am in the category of less than 5 inches -- this chart does not make me feel inferior. But again, it's my single opinion for me.

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For those of us who fall primarily into the green category I must confess I like the knowing that anything over 5" is EXTRA...

 

extra (èk´stre) adjective

Abbr. ext., ex., X

1. More than or beyond what is usual, normal, expected, or necessary

 

The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Third Edition copyright © 1992 by Houghton Mifflin Company. Electronic version licensed from InfoSoft International, Inc. All rights reserved.

 

I would not have chosen the wording REQUIRED for 5" or less. Afterall there are lots of positions where I cannot use 5" of my penis and SOMETIMES the most satisfying sex occurs with only the head being used. I feel REQUIRED is an unfortunate and inaccurate word for the green zone.

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