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My wife, who I met when she was 40, has seen a lot of cocks, but likes mine the best! We didn’t do a lot of history exploration, but when I told her my number was 60, all she would say is that her number was higher, but not triple digits. After a month of very regular and vigorous sex, she said she had never had a dick that fit her pussy so well as mine. Not too thick, not too thin, not too long. My cock also has a noticeable upward curve which hits her g spot in mish and cowgirl. We were and are compatible on both physical as well as sexuality levels.

There are women out there who enjoy a smaller sized penis. I found one. A lot of the sex we have is awesome foreplay ahead of time. We show appreciation to each other over many things every day. Every evening she gets ready for bed and lies there to wait for me.(we both sleep nude). I get ready in the bathroom and walk naked from that down the hall to the bedroom. She always comments on how she enjoys seeing my great looking body walking across the floor and then mentions to me I have such a beautiful penis. Then I will complement her on her great body, breasts and vagina. I know I was lucky to find her and I do my best to show love to her as she does to me to keep us going. My three sons don’t hear what is mentioned in the bedroom but the appreciation between the two of us really teaches our sons on how to treat a girlfriend and then a wife. My middle son is married and I’ve heard him do the same to his wife. It brought tears to my eyes knowing we set a great example that he followed.

I'm 79 and grew up.in the swim nude at the YMCA era and open showers era. I am an observer. I can say I have no recollection of small flaccid dicks, they just don't register with me though I've seen probably thousands less than average size. For some reason big flaccid dicks register. I can easily recite the names of my friends and shower acquaintances with long flaccid dicks...Dave, Ron, Mark, Pat, Bruce, Jim, Jim, Ron. Being straight I have seen very few erect dicks other than junior high circle jerks and a few fortunate swaps and 3 ways. I doubt any were much smaller than 5" or bigger than 6". So there you have it from an old man!

Please tell us about both encounters.

I'd only been naked around others men at college, uni and working, it was so common with gang showers so no room for modesty. Never gave it much thought, just got naked and showered, occasional use of sauna at one gym. First time at a nude beach with mixed company I was a little hesitant, but that lasted all of 30 seconds and I just loved the experience. Go to clubs and beaches when I can, no problem being naked around either sex, sometimes they are clothed, again no issues.

Here is mine. My 6x6. 🤷‍♂️

Sorry for the delay haha, busy week. So frequently when I'd have sleepovers in my teens I had about 4-6 friends where we would play truth or dare and streak the neighborhood or touch each others cocks. Always ended in a major group cumshot. It was fascinating to see different sizes and shapes in real life and not just in porn.

THIS! Most men I have been with have loved my small cock. A few women liked it. A few women didn't. A lot depends on the size of the hole it's going in.

You need to ask if we are interested? How silly. Get on with it as soon as possible.

I'm not sure gyms or sports clubs are a good option these days, seems many have become incredibly shy. I went to a clothing optional hot springs in California and almost everyone was naked there.

Mines more pink than purple today, shaft has retained some colour from last summer, but the rest of me is fairly white.

My wife and I are in the same situation as you. We have been together for 4 decades and are still 'best friends', do pretty much everything together, and have never had 'bad' sex.

I used to be uncomfortable around anyone if I was nude. Now, being naked is 100% of the time all about letting others see my small penis. I am mentally aroused if not physically aroused 100% of the time.

It's all fine from my perspective.

I don't really care one way or the other if other men see me naked. The doctor's office, locker room, whatever, I just don't think about it. On the other hand, I like it when women see me naked. Whenever there is a situation where a woman (or women) might see me naked, I just let it happen.

My wife is like this. We have great sex with my 3 1/2 inch erection. When I’m super excited it will get to 4. We produced 3 sons together.

Great topic! I don’t ever have a free for all attitude about it, but it has never stopped me from using public showers. I have become so used to it that my preference would have to be men seeing me naked.

I do think it's fun to roleplay the "size hierachy" stuff. I find it a turn on. I'm fairly big myself, and do like outgunning guys in compares, but do become submissive and in awe of cocks that are decisively bigger than me. I go to hung gay masseurs in my city, and so I've found guys who crush my big fella. One of the recent ones was talking to me about how some of his hung clients are still no match for his size, and that they "bow down in deference" naturally to his horsecock. I realize this is all silly and has nothing to do with someone's worth, but it's a hot kink.

Here's my report. What is your erect length (measured along the top, in inches)? - 6 inches What is your flaccid length (in inches)? - 3 inches What is your erect girth (circumference, in inches)? - 4 inches What is your flaccid girth (in inches)? - 4 inches How much does your penis grow from flaccid to erect (length gain)? - 3 inches What is the total stretched flaccid length? - 4 inches How thick is the base of your shaft compared to the middle? - Not much difference How wide is your glans (head) at its widest point? - 5 inches How long is your glans from base to tip? - 1.5 inches Is your penis straight when erect? - Mostly If curved, which direction does it curve? - Not curved Is the curve consistent or only in one part (base, shaft, or head)? - N/A Does the shaft have any twists or rotation? - No Is your penis shaped more like a cylinder, cone, or mushroom? - Cylinder Is your shaft smooth or slightly bumpy? - Smooth Do you have any visible veins on your shaft? - Slight veining Do you have any visible blood vessels or lymph nodes under the skin? - A few Are there pearly papules around your corona (ridge)? - No Do you have any skin tags, moles, or marks? - No How much semen do you usually ejaculate (in tsp or ml)? - 5ml What is the consistency of your ejaculate? (watery, thick, clumpy, etc.) - A bit watery How far can you ejaculate (distance in inches or feet)? - I used to be a shooter, now a dribbler Is your foreskin full, partial, or tight? - Full Can you fully retract your foreskin when erect? - Yes Is the foreskin longer or shorter than the glans when flaccid? - Longer Is the inner foreskin a different texture than the outer? - Yes, silky on the inside, smooth & soft on the outer Do you have a defined ridged band at the tip of the foreskin? - Yes At what age were you circumcised? - I wasn't Was the circumcision loose, tight, or moderate? - N/A Is there visible scarring around the corona or shaft? - N/A Is your glans completely exposed when flaccid? - N/A Is your circumcision line even or irregular? - N/A How much precum do you usually produce? (drop, streak, stream, none) - Streams nicely Does precum appear before full arousal or only during stimulation? - Yes before What is the texture of your precum? (watery, slippery, sticky) - Slippery What is the shape of your glans? (mushroom, rounded, conical, flat, tapered) - Mushroom with flared edge Is your glans wider, narrower, or equal to the shaft width? - Quite a lot wider Does your glans have a pronounced corona (ridge)? - Yes Is your meatus (pee hole) centered, off-center, or slightly tilted? - Centered Is the texture of your glans smooth, sticky, glossy, or matte? - Smooth Does your penis have a visible raphe (seam line)? - Yes Do you have a pronounced dorsal vein (top of shaft)? - Not really Is the underside of your shaft flat, ridged, or rounded? - Rounded How pronounced is your frenulum (underside bridge of skin)? - Quite pronounced How would you describe the size of your testicles? (small, average, large) - Average What is the approximate length of each testicle (in inches or cm)? - About 1.5 inches What is the approximate width of each testicle (in inches or cm)? - About 1.5 inches Is there a noticeable size difference between your left and right testicle? - No Do your testicles rest close to your body or hang lower? - Rest closer to body What type of underwear do you typically wear? (briefs, boxers, boxer briefs, none) - Briefs How does your penis typically rest inside underwear? - Downwards slightly to the right Does your flaccid penis bunch, fold, or extend fully in underwear? - It folds Do your testicles feel compressed, supported, or loose in underwear? - Supported

I would say I have a helmet glans which flares out quite nicely when aroused.

Speaking of bears (not the human kind) The local park (120acres) I go to has 10-12 bears; in 10 years I have encountered them 4 times....2x kayaking and 2 times walking. Every time I just shouted and they took off like a bat outta hell. once within 15 feet walking and 5ft kayaking Do I obsess fearfully over bears, nope, do I obsess over dick size, nope.

More of a scoop type for me

Mines a dark purple when hard, but pink when soft

Just be happy it all works, circumcised or foreskin doesn't matter, it's good to see the variety of shapes and sizes similar or different to your own.

At the risk of going off-topic, I wonder how many of us pop boners when reading forum topics here. I know that I do with some topics, although this one hasn't had that effect—so far.

In the right context, I feel equally confortable with men or women. However, if the other person is also naked (which is usually the case) I prefer to be surrounded by men so I can enjoy the views too

... ... @Littles25... ... Lol... This is one reason I am no longer concerned about always going out commando. When I'm out in public where our clothes are required, I'm wearing athletic pants. .. if people look, they can tell where my dick is, and if they keep watching while I'm walking they can see it is loose to move in one way or another. ... I seldom find an occasion except for once in awhile, that I think I need to restrain it. This also gives me easier access to masturbate if I decide to while driving, or if I decide to for a while whenever or wherever I'm parked. I stay naked around the house all the time, inside and outside. Like you, I feel some sort of sexual arousal all the time, even when I'm asleep 😄👍. It may not always be visible by an erection, but sex is always in the background somewhere. Whether that's good or bad I don't know. 🤣 (As per the norm... I'm naked, and I have one of my erections right now 👍)

Definitely more around women than men. Most of my doctors are women (especially ones who might see me naked). I have always felt I am being judged when around men, since I am likely going to be the smallest one of the group. That said, going to nudist resorts has helped some. I am okay with being nude around both genders but prefer more around women.

You go to a nude beach and you are the smallest guy there; smaller than some teens or even pre-teens, where many guys soft are longer and thicker than I am hard.

Back when I was having sex with women (now, I'm more gay than bi), like most of the guys in this discussion, I could penetrate but would slip out every time. So I used the "brush method," without even knowing its name, to have vulvo-clitoral intercourse since I couldn't fill a vagina at all. By guiding my short and thin penis between two fingers to make my glans moving between the labias and stimulate the clitoris, it worked quiet well, but only with "clitoridian women", not with "vaginal women". With boys, I can't go any further than the anal sphincter. I haven't even tried in a long time, having more or less accepted this limitation and an exclusively passive sexuality. Fortunately, I've always preferred foreplay to penetration attempts, and I love masturbation and oral sex, which are better suited to my anatomy (my fully erect penis is 6 to 6.5 cm long).

I think there's a bit of self selection bias that takes place. Really large penises are rare, but given that there are 4+ billion males in the world, there are millions of them out there. The web has made it easy to share pics and video, and I'm sure that really large dicks are over-represented as the dudes they're attached to are more likely to want to show them off. Just my 0.05¢ (adjusted for inflation if course 😉)

i would say that you are in an average "range" - but would definitely be quite larger than 50% of men with that overall volume. In fact, according to this calculator, you're in like the 80th percentile. https://calcsd.info/ i haven't interrogated the data sources here, but from my lived experience, the results in the calculator make sense. a cock that's like 5.2 x 4.8 comes up pretty much right at the 50% marker. i'm fairly big myself, at 7 x 5.8, but it doesn't feel that big b/c of course i remember the monsters who blew my size away more than the many many guys i've outgunned. i'm really into comparing and size "contests" and size play of all kinds. i'm also gay so have seen a lot of fellas. i say that "for the real world" i'm quite big, meaning i rarely "lose" a compare in person, or glancing around at the urinal (I'm typically 5 x 4.25 soft). but online everyone is delusional (as the self-reporting stats show above), using camera trickery, or the web just tends to bring out some massive guys who you never see in real life. in short (no pun intended) the "average", as in 50th percentile is a lot smaller than people tend to think.

I'm more a grower than a shower but I have been told I can put on a good show!

I suppose it all depends on who is defining 'average'. Some on here say they have small penises when I would think they are of a good size I wouldn't like to have a very big one as I can imagine sitting, running and anything else may well be a problem.

torpedo head

Even without the details of the journal, this is an excellent reflection on dealing with insecurities and betrayal of trust (as an "adult") be it written, photographed or shared with a friend verbally. It would require a degree of maturity, a "teenager" might not have or comprehend. Similar to my alcoholic recovery, it was not the alcohol that was the problem, it was a way of drowning the real problems: my "perception" of the world, my insecurities, my doubts, my who am I and where do if fit. The first meeting and "Welcome", along with people sharing their story (without shame) started the journey to self-acceptance and understanding and led to 33 years clean and sober.

@ATXSP Did you ever have any one-on-one encounters and if yes, did that change the dynamics or activities? In my preteens I had sneaky, secret sexual playtimes with about five different boys. But only one-on-one, no groups. I initiated all of the boy on boy action. As far as I knew, those boys didn't play with each other. I too was fascinated with the differences in bodies and stages of puberty. In retrospect, I'm also fascinated in the differences of the interest, willingness of participation and preference of activities exhibited by the different boys. One friend was more interested in looking, touching and sucking my dick than anything else. One friend was more interested in me sucking his dick. He very reluctantly handled my stiffie for a second or two. Do you remember if any of your buddies showed signs of different interests?

Nothing lasts forever, but I continue to hold out hope that we will find out something soon.

..... It's too bad that they didn't give someone that they trusted an email address for them in case of serious need for contact. 😐

This ties into the thread about "Do women discuss your penis with their friends", in that two girl friends ended up seeing my dick after my wife talked about me. If anyone's interested and it fits the thread topic, I'll post about both encounters.

According to @Appreciater color chart, my shaft is in between warm rosey and dark brown, but my dick head is "off the chart" as kind of pinkish purple: https://freeimage.host/i/B0UEzQt

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Pointed head, #2 is what I have

Helmet here, I'd say it's the most common style.

... I've never really thought that much about this. ... Thinking about all my different medical appointments and hospital stays recently and the past years, I realize that I quite freely was naked many times with just women doctors, nurses, and assistants. ... Also, with a mixture of male doctors, nurses, and assistants. ... It didn't bother me when they were doing things with me totally naked and exposed to them all. Sometimes I would even be handling and showing them things about my equipment, for sometimes that was even the reason of needing their services. Also I have openly masturbated in front of both sexes. ... I've mentioned the one great niece, who loved to see my dick exposed anytime she had a chance and it was fine with me. ... So thinking it all over in the span of all things, I guess it really makes no difference to me who I'm naked in front of.

I've learned to love my small dick. The key is having a woman who likes your small dick and likes teasing you lovingly about it.

Once I decided that loving myself and embraced masturbation as both self care and as authentic sex (love making for one), I began to really like being small. I do have the strong urge to share my little penis with others. Having male friends to masturbate with would be just epic.

The Journal Under the Mattress There are certain objects from adolescence that take on a gravity far beyond their size. A folded note. A photograph. I never noitched a ruler, but I kept a hidden notebook. Things that, at the time, feel less like possessions and more like containers—places where a young person tries to make sense of themselves in private. For me, it was a small journal. It wasn’t elaborate. Nothing leather-bound or ornate. Just a plain notebook I kept tucked beneath my mattress—what I believed to be the safest place in the world. In it, I recorded what I did not feel I could speak aloud: penile measurements, changes, observations about my body as it grew (or didn’t grow) during my teenage years. Looking back now, I can see what I was really doing. I was trying to understand myself. I was trying to reassure myself. I was trying to answer a question I didn’t yet have the language for: Am I normal? Am I okay? The Private Becoming Adolescence is, by its nature, a time of comparison—though no one ever admits how constant or how quiet that comparison is. Locker rooms. Passing jokes. Teasing. Hazing. Looks. Half-heard comments. The way other boys carried themselves with a confidence when they walked that I didn’t feel I possessed. All of it accumulated into a kind of background noise, and the journal became my attempt to create order within it. Each entry was a small act of control. A way of saying: I can track this. I can measure this. I can understand where I stand. There was no exhibition in it. No vanity. If anything, the opposite. It was private, careful, almost clinical. A ritual of observation that belonged only to me. Or so I believed. The Discovery There is a particular kind of violation that does not leave a mark on the body, but alters something just as real. When my brother found my journal, it was not merely discovered—it was exposed. Shared. Turned outward. What had been written in quiet became, in an instant, public knowledge. Not in the sense of a formal announcement, but in the far more chaotic and cruel way such things spread among adolescents—through laughter, insinuation, retelling. But it did not end there. Tucked within the pages of that journal was something even more vulnerable—a photograph he had taken of me. It was never meant to be seen by anyone else. It was part of that same private effort to understand my body, to document what I could not speak about. My brother took that too. And then he showed it. To his friends. There is a kind of exposure that goes beyond words—when not only your thoughts but your body itself is taken out of your control and made into something for others to look at, react to, laugh at. It is difficult to describe the exact feeling of that moment, because it was not a single emotion. It was shock. Then disbelief. Then a kind of heat—something between anger and humiliation—followed by a deeper, colder realization: There is no safe place. My mattress was no longer safe. My room was no longer safe. Even my own body began to feel less like my own. I remember spending nights out in the treehouse, because at least there I could roll up the rope ladder to prevent trespassers. When Curiosity Becomes Shame What I had written—and even photographed—was not wrong. It was, in fact, entirely human—an attempt by a young person to understand his own development. But once exposed, it was no longer seen that way. It became something to be judged. Mocked. Reduced. And in that transformation, something subtle but lasting occurred: curiosity turned into shame. Where I had once observed myself, I now avoided myself. Where I had once recorded, I now concealed. The act of self-understanding—once tentative but sincere—became associated with danger. Not because of what I had done, but because of how others had responded. The Long Echo Experiences like that do not remain confined to the moment in which they occur. They echo. They shape how one inhabits their own body. They inform what is revealed, and what is hidden. They influence how one anticipates the gaze of others—even when no one is looking. For a long time, I carried not just the memory of what happened, but the conclusion it seemed to impose: If this part of me is seen, I will be humiliated. That belief does not easily dissolve. It embeds itself quietly, resurfacing in moments of vulnerability, intimacy, or comparison. Reclaiming the Narrative It has taken time to understand that my journal—and even that photograph—were never the source of shame. The act of writing, of documenting, of trying to understand my body—none of that was something to regret. It was, in its own way, an act of care. The harm came from its violation. From the betrayal of trust. From the transformation of something private into something weaponized. And recognizing that distinction matters. Because it allows for a different conclusion: There was nothing wrong with me for wanting to understand myself. Closing Reflection If I think of that journal now, I no longer see it as something embarrassing. I see it as evidence of a younger self trying, with limited tools and limited language, to navigate a confusing and often unforgiving landscape. · He deserved privacy. · He deserved kindness. · He deserved not to have that small, fragile attempt at self-understanding—written or photographed—turned against him. And perhaps the work now—years later—is to offer him, at last, what he did not receive then: · A measure of understanding. · A measure of compassion. · And the quiet assurance that he was never the problem.

UAU my labels. Metric, SD 1.66/1.1 - L/G US Standard, SD .65/.43 - L/G

Careful for what you wish for. Mine aren't that big and my scrotum is usually tight and round but I'd love to have yours (or none at all).