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On 2/3/2019 at 3:19 PM, OKC Girl said:

So here is my first real post. As far as length goes, if a guy has average thickness, I would agree with others that 7+ is big.  My experience is that 7 is pretty rare, much more than 7 (7 and half? or 8?) is VERY rare.   Really 6 to 6 and half is pretty common.  

 

Just my 2c, but IMO, I also think 7"+ is the start of big...

On 2/3/2019 at 3:19 PM, OKC Girl said:

I'm not able to give any answer for what is average or large thickness. I think Im able to judge length accurately, and have talked about length with some men, but thats not the case with thickness. 

I'd be curious what is considered thick? in actual inches.  Thickness is important as length for me.

IMO, I think 5.25"+ is the start of thick.

I'm very definitely straight, but this is my honest opinion based on the fact that my partner has a fetish for large cock hetero porn (and I find myself only able to watch porn if I've been convinced or fooled into thinking the male is as large or larger than me -- go figure).

I'm quite a bit larger than 7x5.25, but there is something about that magic length/girth ratio (> 1.3) that fools my brain into thinking the cock is huge, particularly with a smaller female.

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On 1/28/2019 at 3:37 PM, Allen43 said:

If an erect penis is anywhere close to being 7” long and if your finger and thumb won’t touch when grabbing it by the shaft and squeezing.....it’s BIG! Totally non-scientific method but I think it’s still a fairly accurate way to determine if one is BIG...or not. Anyway, “big” is usually in the eye of the beholder.

My fingers still touch. Ok, my dick isn't big then. That's interesting. :huh:

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On 2/5/2019 at 7:33 PM, Biggie Smalls said:

My fingers still touch. Ok, my dick isn't big then. That's interesting. :huh:

So I wanted to see what girth I'd actually need to have my fingers not touch. A bottle with a circumference of 6.5" still allowed my fingers to touch so I looked for something bigger. Found an item with a circumference of 7 3/8 inches. Looks like my girth would have to exceed 7 inches to make me the proud owner of a dick that would be considered big. My hands are pretty average (glove size M) so I really wonder who would sport a big dick according to that definition proposed by @Allen43.

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I concede that not being able to touch your fingers when squeezing and gripping a big fat penis might set the bar a bit too high for what might be considered big..LOL. 7.5” in circumference is indeed REALLY THICK!  I vividly remember a past experience of mine when I was a rather young boy with another older boy. I couldn’t get my fingers to touch when I squeezed his thing as hard as I could, but my hands were probably still rather small. He told me his penis was 7”hard. I never saw him measure it but I certainly didn’t doubt what he told me..lol.

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On 2/8/2019 at 12:58 AM, Allen43 said:

I concede that not being able to touch your fingers when squeezing and gripping a big fat penis might set the bar a bit too high for what might be considered big..LOL. 7.5” in circumference is indeed REALLY THICK!  I vividly remember a past experience of mine when I was a rather young boy with another older boy. I couldn’t get my fingers to touch when I squeezed his thing as hard as I could, but my hands were probably still rather small. He told me his penis was 7”hard. I never saw him measure it but I certainly didn’t doubt what he told me..lol.

7.5" isn't only "really thick". It's almost impossible to find guys with girth that monstrous!

So I experimented a little bit more and used an object with a circumference of 6.3". A girth of 6.3" is something that you could actually encounter in real life with some luck or when sleeping with enough men. As you you can see my fingers can easily touch despite the pills container being totally rigid, unlike a hard dick. As a comparison I held a dildo next to it (yes, I cut the balls off :D).
Dimensions of the dildo are pretty average (girth 4.6-4.7") as I had purchased it to compare with my own equipment.

The interesting thing is that you can trick people into believing that a dick is bigger than it really is. You can position your hand in a way that makes it appear like your fingers aren't able to touch when gripping your cock. That's what I did when holding that dildo which is in fact of average size as mentioned above. When you know this it's easier to notice this trick being applied in dick pics.

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@Biggie Smalls I'd definitely agree there, any girth above 7" is truly monstrous and no doubt incredibly rare too. I think the vast majority of potential partners would be running for the hills when presented with such a girth! 

A girth of 6" - 6.5" is already truly big and I must admit regardless of length I do get quite turned on by outsized girth! But not to the extent of 7" and beyond. A 5" length with a 6"+ girth looks big and volume wise it actually is! 

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I just read that only 5% erect penises are over 6.3 inches long.  Not seeing many erect ones, I have no reason to disbelieve this statistic.

As far as hands go,  my hand is 8.5" in circumference at the widest point, near the base of the fingers.  Palm width is 3 3/4".  Middle finger is 3 3/4" long, pointer is 3".  Overall hand length is about 7 1/2" long.  According to www.theaveragebody.com, I am slightly over average. I think my hands and fingers are really skinny.

My erect penis is 5 1/2 " or 5 3/4" long and 4 3/4" circumference.  Slightly over average length for the US, depending on the study and slightly under average circumference.  All locker rooms and nudist places I have been to must have all bigger than average guys, at least flaccid.

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Casual perception of flaccid size is difficult because not only does it naturally fluctuate, but at any given moment it could be partially engorged with some amount of blood, and that may have nothing to do with sexual arousal. 

 

The thought occurred to me as I caught a glimpse of my second roommate's cock this morning.  At first I was surprised by how large what I saw was, but as his dick gradually deflated,  I realized he'd woken up with some manner of morning wood, as I occasionally do. 

I mention it because I suppose it can affect perception of what big is for flaccid size, particularly if erect measurements are encroaching. 

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  • 2 weeks later...

My wife must think I've lost my noodle. I'm always looking for something. What size eggs to we buy? Do we have any? Where's that fabric measuring tape? Do you still have that vitamin bottle? I need some yarn. No I'm not learning to knit I just need some yarn. No yarn? Twine? Don't throw out that paper towel tube I might need it for later. Oh yeah I left the measuring tape in the desk for quick reference, it's cool just leave it 

Now, thanks to the quick reference measuring tape I have confirmed I have short fat fingers. This was not a revelation but I may need to suggest a subforum for anyone suffering from small fingers. <_<

My stubs are 3". Yep that's it. The middle finger. Across the knuckles my hand is 4" and across the heel 4.5" and 7" from wrist to tip. That sounds small compared to others here but they're brawny solid compact things built for smashing and crushing. Not fine hands at all. If there is a correlation between hands and penis, I guess my dick makes a lot more sense now. 

What would I consider a large is 7.5" Beyond that is (no offense to any big guys reading) too disturbing for me. I have an aversion to tall slim people too so I'm guessing it's related. It creeps me out like only spiders can. Chances are great that I'm not the one that's going to be using it though so what does it matter to me if you have a 9 incher. Large soft? I always think that a guy that is large soft is already putting on his best show and you're probably seeing his hard on upside down. That's kind of a shame. No surprise for the ladies. None of that oh look what you went and done! B) kind of surprise. It might not be true but in my limited experience and years of hearing it from women friends  it tends to be. So large soft is very relative to your opinion of yourself I think. 

I probably didn't contribute much to the thread so sorry bout that but after 5 pages of discussion there's not much left to add that hasn't already been said. 

Now about that subforum for small fingers. 

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First,  great contribution.  Second,  as an owner and operate of 9.5 inches, I'm not offended at all.  lol.  Third,  as someone who is large flaccid bit also gets even larger erect,  I don't think I suffer from what you described on the plight of the shower as much.  I've been told I'm a grower AND a shower. 

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2 hours ago, Triasco9.5 said:

First,  great contribution.  Second,  as an owner and operate of 9.5 inches, I'm not offended at all.  lol.  Third,  as someone who is large flaccid bit also gets even larger erect,  I don't think I suffer from what you described on the plight of the shower as much.  I've been told I'm a grower AND a shower. 

You sir won the genetics lottery!

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1 minute ago, Red Scott said:

@HurtbutHopeful let's not forget that as much as we all say "I wish I was this size or that size" it's important to consider the impact of having a very large penis. It can be as much a hindrance as it is a blessing! 

I understand that the grass is always greener on the other side but by our society standards that side is pretty green. There are few people who are hung that wish they had a 4” inch penis but when you’ve been humiliated like I have by other guys, I’d take a big dick with all of its hinderances any day! 

I was depantsed by a bully and made fun of. I don’t think it would have happened if I was hung. 

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32 minutes ago, HurtbutHopeful said:

I understand that the grass is always greener on the other side but by our society standards that side is pretty green. There are few people who are hung that wish they had a 4” inch penis but when you’ve been humiliated like I have by other guys, I’d take a big dick with all of its hinderances any day! 

I was depantsed by a bully and made fun of. I don’t think it would have happened if I was hung. 

It has happened and has happened to me.  I have  been teased, ridiculed,  stereotyped,  objectified, and treated with hostility all because of my large penis. Also,  "Society" says that a large penis is desirable and has more value, but more often then not I have been rejected specifically because my dick was seen as or heard about being too big and intimidating. 

I'm not saying that you're wrong for wanting a bigger one and feeling that the  issues are worth it when compared to the ones you deal with currently or have dealt with in the past. But,  as you were before,  be careful of the impact of your words in conveying minimization language, even if that wasn't your intent. 

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2 hours ago, quickquoteit said:

I am almost  exactly 6.7 in x 5.7 in at the base with a wide flared head, magnums fit very well. I consider myself above average, but not big.

i consider anyone at least half an inch longer or any thicker big.

You will have to excuse me if I disagree with you self assessment.....You, in my opinion mind you,  have a ‘big’ penis. Not an average sized penis. Not a larger than average sized penis, but a BIG penis. It is of course not huge, but it most definitly IS big. 

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There isn't a right or wrong answer, to me, because it is opinion based. I've been called small and also big yet I'm almost 6x5. One partner called it perfect because it was the only dick she could cum with during penetration even though she has experienced both much smaller and much larger.  Another partner I have we only play oral because I'm "too small" to enjoy. It is what it is

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