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On ‎12‎/‎17‎/‎2018 at 2:46 PM, toadfish327 said:

I got to thinking, in the last 25+ years, only my wife and myself have given me orgasms.  I wonder if I could even get hard I the presence of a stranger; let alone have an orgasm.

Spadey,

Did the legit places offer you the happy ending or did you request it?  Were you hard or did they make you hard?

I have often wondered the same thing if I could get an erection in the presence of a stranger. I think the answer is no. 45 years  of the wife and myself only orgasms probably would make it impossible.  

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Held off getting a massage until mid 40's only because I got hard so easily.  Started monthly massage, woman, would tent some on my back, concentrating on anything to get mind off my penis.  Precum fo

My massages have been a progression.... I found a massage guy, and the first few times I was under a sheet and did get hard.  I never came but was constantly hard and a bit embarrassed.   After my 3rd

I have had many professional massages in the past.  Most times I am naked under the draping sheets and have rarely had any issues with getting hard.  Today I had my first undraped massage.  The whole

I have had many professional massages in the past.  Most times I am naked under the draping sheets and have rarely had any issues with getting hard.  Today I had my first undraped massage.  The whole time I was worried about getting an erection.  There were no issues for the first half hour when she was massaging my back and I was on my stomach.  She asked me to turn over and the second she touched my chest I got rock hard with my full 4" sticking straight up.  I got really embarrassed and apologized to the masseuse but she calmly told me not to worry, it happens due to the body being so relaxed.  She had to tell me a whole bunch of times not to be so tense after that.  It wouldn't go down either and she massaged around it for the next half hour.  She never touched it the whole time.  Ended up being erotic and extremely embarrassing at the same time.  Its the first time a female other than my wife has seen me hard in close to 20 years.  It was at a clothing optional spa and the person who went in immediately after me must have been at least 8" soft and as thick as a beer can.  I can only imagine what she thought working on him after seeing my 4" thin hardon.

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Just returned from another cruise where I had another massage. This was probably the oldest masseuse I have ever had. She was Asian looking and looked to be in her 40s. She exposed and massaged more of my body than anyone has before. I started out on my stomach. She removed the sheet from at least half of my body which exposed one full butt cheek at a time. My butt cheeks didn't get much attention but she did cover them with massage oil just as she did the rest of my body. When she finished with my back side, she held the sheet up to block her view as I turned over. While she massaged my legs, she pulled the sheet back to reveal one leg at a time all the way up passed my hips. My dick and balls were still covered but not by much. Again I had massage oil covering me from head to toe. She didn't focus her attention on my inner thighs but it was the closest I've ever had a masseuse come to touching my privates. I didn't get an erection but, when it was all over, I had left a wet spot on the sheet.

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On 7/14/2019 at 10:26 AM, smokeylink said:

Just returned from another cruise where I had another massage. This was probably the oldest masseuse I have ever had. She was Asian looking and looked to be in her 40s. She exposed and massaged more of my body than anyone has before. I started out on my stomach. She removed the sheet from at least half of my body which exposed one full butt cheek at a time. My butt cheeks didn't get much attention but she did cover them with massage oil just as she did the rest of my body. When she finished with my back side, she held the sheet up to block her view as I turned over. While she massaged my legs, she pulled the sheet back to reveal one leg at a time all the way up passed my hips. My dick and balls were still covered but not by much. Again I had massage oil covering me from head to toe. She didn't focus her attention on my inner thighs but it was the closest I've ever had a masseuse come to touching my privates. I didn't get an erection but, when it was all over, I had left a wet spot on the sheet.

Nice. I usually leave a wet spot on the sheet. The therapist I see that doesn’t require me to drape is fairly old to. She looks like she’s in her 50’s but she’s fantastic. 

Last time I was in I got a bit of a hard on and pre cum was building. She brushed the head of my cock a few times with her arms and some got on her. She just continued to work away. 

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Was talking to friend recently about getting a massage at a Massage Envy type place. He asked if I thought they ever saw guys dicks while they were giving the massage. I told him, unless you are laying on your dick the whole time, they definitely see it. Then I showed him the pic below and he said, wow, I never thought about that!

https://imgur.com/44OM2TW

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I have gone to female massage therapists quite a few times.  I have never gotten hard during a massage.  My favorite therapist is about 5 or 10 years older than me and quite pretty. She has been very close to touching my balls when working my legs, but i have always been covered. I really wouldn't mind a happy ending, but i am too scared to suggest anything.  Maybe i should moan or sigh when she gets close to the balls?  Maybe try to get hard?  I would hate to lose her as a therapist.

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16 hours ago, toadfish327 said:

I have gone to female massage therapists quite a few times.  I have never gotten hard during a massage.  My favorite therapist is about 5 or 10 years older than me and quite pretty. She has been very close to touching my balls when working my legs, but i have always been covered. I really wouldn't mind a happy ending, but i am too scared to suggest anything.  Maybe i should moan or sigh when she gets close to the balls?  Maybe try to get hard?  I would hate to lose her as a therapist.

Yeah don’t ask. If the place is legit it won’t happen. Some therapists after you have seen them for long time and if there is trust may let you go uncovered but that’s about it. 

 

 

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I used to go to massage therapists all the time when I lived in Manchester. Private ones mostly. One chap did the massages from his home, he had converted a room specifically for his business and said he was legit. He was about late forties early fifties and I was about 27/28. I always lie down naked and he was pretty good. He went right up into my ass crack and when he was doing the base of my feet I kept feeling him press his hard on into them as he reached up my leg. When I turned over he spent a long time on my inner thighs and tummy, and swept his hand over my balls which hang all over the show anyway, and occasionally my cock was brushed with his hand. He gave me a happy ending which I wasn’t expecting and I reciprocated with my mouth I think. The next thing I know I was in the shower washing off the oil and the door opened and in he got with me! He said afterwards he doesn’t usually do it as his partner is often working downstairs and he is a professional. I dunno if I believed him then and I certainly don’t believe it now. 

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On 7/22/2019 at 7:21 PM, toadfish327 said:

I have gone to female massage therapists quite a few times.  I have never gotten hard during a massage.  My favorite therapist is about 5 or 10 years older than me and quite pretty. She has been very close to touching my balls when working my legs, but i have always been covered. I really wouldn't mind a happy ending, but i am too scared to suggest anything.  Maybe i should moan or sigh when she gets close to the balls?  Maybe try to get hard?  I would hate to lose her as a therapist.

She is not a sex worker. You would be immediately ejected and summarily banned from the establishment. Best case scenario you make her very uncomfortable, and either from discomfort or a desire to retain her license she would refuse to see you again. 

The sex workers who give happy endings are almost always  slaves. Seeing them supports slavery. 

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On 7/16/2019 at 4:55 PM, Restoredude said:

Was talking to friend recently about getting a massage at a Massage Envy type place. He asked if I thought they ever saw guys dicks while they were giving the massage. I told him, unless you are laying on your dick the whole time, they definitely see it. Then I showed him the pic below and he said, wow, I never thought about that!

https://imgur.com/44OM2TW

My husband and I had, for a few years, a monthly appointment for couples massage. They always, whether we were together or separate, left the same instructions. "Please strip down to underpants only, and lie under the sheet." They would indicate based on the time management they planned out to address our specific concerns, as noted on our intake forms or questions they'd ask at reception, whether we should begin face up, or face down. In accordance with the law in our state, they left so we could undress, knocked and asked per ission to reenter. They moved the sheet in increments, only uncovering what they worked on, covering us back up to work elsewhere. My regular therapist knew I liked the bed heated up quite a bit, and always had me begin face up so my back could benefit from heat therapy. His regular therapist helped him deepen his stretches. Mine knelt on my hamstrings and worked my glutes deeply when I finally asked her if it would be okay to work more on my glutes after we pretty much destroyed ourselves dooing yard work one week. She said she had known for months I needed that kind of aid, but couldn't risk making me uncomfortable. When it was time to flip sides, they either left the room, or lifted the sheets while looking away. The only exception to this was my grandmother. I had purchased a membership for her as well. She could not turn herself over. I always left her stripped down to a diaper. She always was turned over without my assistance. I assume she was seen. They were always quite lovely to us at that spa. I also used to go there for waxing and facials and microdermabrasion. The aestherician saw EVERYTHING. She had to be all up in my business to wax my vulva. I'm sure she saw all kinds of genitals. Nice lady. Awkward service to request. "Shall I get between your buttoxks as well?"

"Yes, please," was always my sheepish reply. 

 

In my experience in VA, Upstate NY, Las Vegas, and a cruise ship, privacy has been very delicately handled in nice spas. 

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On 7/28/2019 at 3:06 PM, Storm11 said:

I used to go to massage therapists all the time when I lived in Manchester. Private ones mostly. One chap did the massages from his home, he had converted a room specifically for his business and said he was legit. He was about late forties early fifties and I was about 27/28. I always lie down naked and he was pretty good. He went right up into my ass crack and when he was doing the base of my feet I kept feeling him press his hard on into them as he reached up my leg. When I turned over he spent a long time on my inner thighs and tummy, and swept his hand over my balls which hang all over the show anyway, and occasionally my cock was brushed with his hand. He gave me a happy ending which I wasn’t expecting and I reciprocated with my mouth I think. The next thing I know I was in the shower washing off the oil and the door opened and in he got with me! He said afterwards he doesn’t usually do it as his partner is often working downstairs and he is a professional. I dunno if I believed him then and I certainly don’t believe it now. 

I always fantasize it'll happen to me but it never does... :-(

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Lean, you just never know when it will happen. It was a bit of a shock at first as I wasn’t expecting anything if the sort. 

 He gave me a free massage to get me back on his table and the same thing happened again, but I was prepared that time. 

 How often do you get a massage, if you don’t mind me asking?

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I prefer being massaged by a guy. Just have a preference for the strong hand.

Once I was a massage in a guys home. He had a massage table,

This guy was massaging my the inner part of my thighs. A erection was forming in the front of my briefs.

He took the liberty of pulling my briefs down.  I felt embarrassed him seeing my erection.

He asked if I wanted a happy ending. I nodded yes.  I liked him witnessing me cumming.

 

 

 

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On 11/1/2019 at 3:25 PM, Rentbobby said:

I prefer being massaged by a guy. Just have a preference for the strong hand.

Once I was a massage in a guys home. He had a massage table,

This guy was massaging my the inner part of my thighs. A erection was forming in the front of my briefs.

He took the liberty of pulling my briefs down.  I felt embarrassed him seeing my erection.

He asked if I wanted a happy ending. I nodded yes.  I liked him witnessing me cumming.

You were embarrassed by the guy seeing your hard on but like him seeing you shoot your load?  Seems a little conflicting.  Have you had other encounters with him since?  Did he clean your load up or did you have to wipe it up yourself?

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On 3/28/2019 at 11:40 PM, Peewee7 said:

I have had many professional massages in the past.  Most times I am naked under the draping sheets and have rarely had any issues with getting hard.  Today I had my first undraped massage.  The whole time I was worried about getting an erection.  There were no issues for the first half hour when she was massaging my back and I was on my stomach.  She asked me to turn over and the second she touched my chest I got rock hard with my full 4" sticking straight up.  I got really embarrassed and apologized to the masseuse but she calmly told me not to worry, it happens due to the body being so relaxed.  She had to tell me a whole bunch of times not to be so tense after that.  It wouldn't go down either and she massaged around it for the next half hour.  She never touched it the whole time.  Ended up being erotic and extremely embarrassing at the same time.  Its the first time a female other than my wife has seen me hard in close to 20 years.  It was at a clothing optional spa and the person who went in immediately after me must have been at least 8" soft and as thick as a beer can.  I can only imagine what she thought working on him after seeing my 4" thin hardon.

That is a super hot post!  Would so love that. 

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Since 2 years i go a male masseur for my backache. I choose him because he was specialized in a butt and leg massage for backage. Of course you have to be naked. The firdt time i was worried that i get an erection. On his site he write that it can happen and that an erection is normal. Still i was a little nervous. He started to massage my back and then my legs and butt. I had to turn so i lay on my back. i had an erection and got red. he said dont worry and continued the massage. My erection disappeared and when he finished i felt great. i had a few erections after the first massage. noe i dont care anymore when it happens. I think they have seen it all before.

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Held off getting a massage until mid 40's only because I got hard so easily.  Started monthly massage, woman, would tent some on my back, concentrating on anything to get mind off my penis.  Precum for sure.  Then, had a guy masseuse, could not control myself, somewhat embarrassed when I turned over, full erection, as he did my legs, it happened.  Started to twitch, my eyes closed, then spurted like a wet dream.  He said no big deal, gave me a small, damp towel, and I cleaned up as best I could, sheet soaked.  Embarrassed, but felt so good.  Hasn't happened since, though need to think of something other than "will she, he brush against my genitals".  

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I went to a specialist in london who was medically trained as well.  The massage room was a grass matt on the floor which I love as it often means the person will walk on your back.  It was really just the room and no place to change.  I stripped to my briefs and he was still there so I asked if i should keep them on as was the case sometimes in more medical messages.  He said it didn't matter to him so I took them off and just stood there.  No towel or sheet around so I walked over to the mat and sat down.  he told me to lay down on my back and he began working on my ankles and up to my knees.  It was great as I had so much pain in my ankle.  I laid there fully exposed and he talked to me about where it hurt.  It was an hour long.  i didn't get hard or anything and afterwards he waited and talked to me while I got dressed.  I went back twice and it was always the same and I never felt better as far as the massage went

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Oh and in poland was the only time i ever got hard in a massage.  I had to wear this like string thong thing.  I have a huge underwear fetish.  If I was nude it would be no big deal but underwear. ugh...I was hard the entire time.  And I am gay!  Nothing happened it was after all a Marriott and professional.

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@toadfish327 Those words are the best ever. Oh my gosh how the world has changed in just a few months. the virus and now the kind of riots going on.Growing up I heard people say. Be thankful for what you have that saying in my eyes holds so true. Yesterday in my state which has had many protests going on. they are now closing down and they said indefently all swimming pools. in all our hotels apartment complexs and if the gyms ever open again there also.   I wonder if we will ever see life again as it was.so as toad said above we should treat people with care and respect. Sorry I went off topic  but just before the virus started I did get a massage after a few years with out.he arrived I stripped every thing off he stayed in room.all went good.i felt a bit of a stirring of my dick but that was it. My biggest fear was him seeing how small I am what guys are thinking.

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