Taking dick pics together with some XXL penis

[onthesmallside05]

I have a tiny soft tool (2 inches x 3 inches around) and feel like comparing with a chap who has an extra large one. I'm just interested in the flaccid state, though. I have quite muscular legs due to rowing and running for many years, which makes my tool look even smaller. Teeheehee!

[new2day]

I have the same body shape, my legs and thighs have always been quite large because of all the sports I've played over the years. My cock is pretty average, when I look at myself in the mirror it looks smaller due to me bigger frame. Doesn't stop me getting naked with others though, I quite enjoy being the small/average who is unafraid of being seen.

[Guest]

On 7/16/2020 at 2:00 PM, onthesmallside05 said:

I'm just interested in the flaccid state, though.

I have to admit, I really prefer seeing males in their relaxed state.  Maybe this is a throw-back to my school days where I first saw other boys naked but never saw an erection (but did see a variety of penises).  I do really prefer seeing others soft.  I suspect there are very few guys on Measurection who hold that opinion but that's what's great about this site - different sizes AND different opinions!

[new2day]

@CuriousNow I agree, seen lots of soft cocks, and it's interesting to see the different shapes, sizes, circumcisions, foreskins etc. Many only share erect pics as sites are often about sex, its good to see the "growers" which is a far more representative of the population rather than the big guys showing off. I've shared pics in all states.

[Guest]

@CuriousNow I really enjoy seeing small too average soft penis. Only when sexual things are going on do I enjoy an erect penis but still only small to average ones. 

[Guest]

On 7/18/2020 at 9:55 AM, new2day said:

... its good to see the "growers" which is a far more representative of the population rather than the big guys showing off.

I totally agree, thanks.

[Guest]

On 7/18/2020 at 10:56 AM, Pilgrem said:

@CuriousNow I really enjoy seeing small too average soft penis. Only when sexual things are going on do I enjoy an erect penis but still only small to average ones. 

Good point.  While I do enjoy seeing "real" guys in their natural state, I don't mind seeing an erection in sexual situations.

[new2day]

Yes, average ones... it's what I can identify with.

[Guest]

That sounds like a fun thing to do . I’d like to see my small penis in contrast to a big one . 

[MicroButton]

I am in awe of the many differences between dick sizes and types, especially comparing them side by side. Last week I had a friend over, who knows I’m tiny, and we went into the spa naked. He has an incredibly beautiful uncut dick about 6” flaccid. The contrast between us was night and day. I would have loved a pic of the two of us together, but too shy to ask. 

[new2day]

That's a shame, maybe you can ask him next time?

I'd be happy to pose with another cock or two and compare, I've seen a few pics and it looks like fun. Don't care if they are bigger or smaller, thicker or thinner, that's what makes comparing fun.

[MicroButton]

24 minutes ago, new2day said:

That's a shame, maybe you can ask him next time?

I'd be happy to pose with another cock or two and compare, I've seen a few pics and it looks like fun. Don't care if they are bigger or smaller, thicker or thinner, that's what makes comparing fun.

Definitely fun to look at comparison pics

[ncisuk]

I did a video for a pro CFNM website as the 'small' dick with a black guy who was huge. I have some stills if anybody wants to se them you'd need to email me. I am anonymous in it. I have the vid but not allowed to share it and got paid £150 for doing it. Was fun too.

david.ravensbury@mailfence.com

[Guest]

On 12/31/2022 at 12:20 PM, uncutonetwo said:

I am in awe of the many differences between dick sizes and types, especially comparing them side by side. Last week I had a friend over, who knows I’m tiny, and we went into the spa naked. He has an incredibly beautiful uncut dick about 6” flaccid. The contrast between us was night and day. I would have loved a pic of the two of us together, but too shy to ask. 

Never snapped pics, but guys always enjoyed positioning their large next to my small.  Tapping mine with their's was stunning to both of us prior to sex activity.

Edited January 3, 2023 by wondering4

[Lukeow]

This concept just fuels my bitterness and anxiety. We are told that bigger cocks are few and far between.  “Porn cocks aren’t representative of normal folk”, yet there are lots of everyday examples here, there and everywhere of much larger cocks on normal people in normal walks of life - not just in porn.  It sucks.  
 

Comparison of this nature, by definition reinforces the difference in size.  Bigger trumps smaller.  The bigger penis would be chosen 9 times in 10 on aesthetics alone.  
 

 

[ncisuk]

20 hours ago, Lukeow said:

This concept just fuels my bitterness and anxiety. We are told that bigger cocks are few and far between.  “Porn cocks aren’t representative of normal folk”, yet there are lots of everyday examples here, there and everywhere of much larger cocks on normal people in normal walks of life - not just in porn.  It sucks. 

Comparison of this nature, by definition reinforces the difference in size.  Bigger trumps smaller.  The bigger penis would be chosen 9 times in 10 on aesthetics alone.  
 

I think though we live in an unfair world where to have variety, some have to be taller, prettier, 'bigger', wider, born disabled etc.

It is a 'first world problem' in some ways, but I wouldn't say it has ruined my life but definitely effected it negatively. Funnily enough in the scene I did the bigger guy was unable to 'finish' so it had to be faked. I didn't have such an issue lol.

[Wookieboy]

On 1/4/2023 at 10:03 AM, ncisuk said:

I think though we live in an unfair world where to have variety, some have to be taller, prettier, 'bigger', wider, born disabled etc.  It is a 'first world problem' in some ways, but I wouldn't say it has ruined my life but definitely effected it negatively. Funnily enough in the scene I did the bigger guy was unable to 'finish' so it had to be faked. I didn't have such an issue lol.

You have my compassion.  It IS an unfair world.  While I would not tease someone for penis size, I remember as a kid, giving "fat" or "unathletic" kids a hard time.  I am not blameless in the world.  I am sure some of them has issues with being fat or super skinny.  At least I never teased any disabled kids, so I am not a complete monster.  I do regret teasing and wouldn't do it now.  In fact, I have looked up a few guys from high school and apologized.  In most cases they didn't even remember me doing it (but they did remember me being the "guy with the little dick").  It is an unfair world.  But you know we all respond differently to it.  I know guys with small dicks who has NOT had sex because of their small size.  It never stopped me.  Where I got hassled was in restrooms and locker rooms, never (or seldom) during sex.  But yeah, being "different" can have a huge impact.  The way I was treated in high school has scarred me forever.  I just have to look at the scars and realize that I survived.

[Guest]

15 hours ago, Wookieboy said:

 I know guys with small dicks who has NOT had sex because of their small size.  It never stopped me.  Where I got hassled was in restrooms and locker rooms, never (or seldom) during sex.

Without excessive drinking, I would have had a lot less sex.

[micro-p]

Interesting idea, which is part of the "human mosaic" that makes everybody different.

There are also other ways to compare and make some dramatic photos.  For one, a wrist size comparison, when I only have a 5-1/2 round wrist.  Another, is being thin (112 pounds), in a wrestling move being in a chestlock, where the opponent's member would still be sticking up higher than mine flaccid.

[Guest]

On 1/5/2023 at 5:05 PM, Wookieboy said:

You have my compassion.  It IS an unfair world.  ...  But you know we all respond differently to it.  ...  But yeah, being "different" can have a huge impact.  The way I was treated in high school has scarred me forever.  I just have to look at the scars and realize that I survived.

Well said.  And an admirable attitude.  It's easy to say that how we handle adversity is the key to surviving it.  But that is, truly, easier said than done.  But it's certainly good advice.

[Wookieboy]

2 minutes ago, CuriousNow said:

Well said.  And an admirable attitude.  It's easy to say that how we handle adversity is the key to surviving it.  But that is, truly, easier said than done.  But it's certainly good advice.

It is easier said than done. Adversity requires effort. 

Just how do you make the best of having bullies strip you naked and take your clothes in the middle of the practice field? How do you handle being called "Pee Wee" and having bullies comment about your micro-penis every day and every day at school so you never get to have a normal day and are constantly reminded how you are different. How do you manage being ostracized when you ask a girl to dance at a school dance and the girl holds up the "dinky dick" sign with her fingers and her friends laugh. We know that being sexually molested is traumatic and have some compassion for the victim.  Is there compassion for guys with small dicks?  Not really, we are marginalized and turned into comic relief. But being brutalized and teased, depantsed, or even having your junk grabbed, can also be traumatic, and it is NOT funny as depicted in movies.   

Yes, that making the best of life is an admirable attitude to make the best of adversity, but it is not easy and it takes time.  i DON'T KNOW THAT i WILL EVER FORGIVE STUDENTS AT MY SCHOOL for what they put me through.  The best I can do is put them out of my mind.  I do not return to reunions.  Why would I.  Those people are part of my past, not my future. 

[Appreciater]

@Wookieboy .... 

For Various reasons, I will not go to school reunions.   I keep in touch with those I choose to.   The rest.. No Interest at all.   I felt the system of education I attended like a prison incarceration with warden and guards... couldn't wait to be rid of it.  

[Guest]

@Wookieboy  I hope I didn't appear to be "cavalier" in my comment above.  I was just trying to say that our individual attitudes about how we have been mistreated in the past can make a world of difference.  But, as you and I both agreed, it is, indeed, far easier said than done.

And what you described about your past experiences is, frankly, far worse than I could have imagined, having experienced only once being "grabbed" by my genitals and having personally seen only one instance of sexual molestation (which, I don't believe, was initially intended to be sexual but which quickly turned).  Your response above was clear and well-stated and I truly hope I did not offend you with my comment.

[Wookieboy]

2 hours ago, CuriousNow said:

@Wookieboy  I hope I didn't appear to be "cavalier" in my comment above.  I was just trying to say that our individual attitudes about how we have been mistreated in the past can make a world of difference.  But, as you and I both agreed, it is, indeed, far easier said than done.

And what you described about your past experiences is, frankly, far worse than I could have imagined, having experienced only once being "grabbed" by my genitals and having personally seen only one instance of sexual molestation (which, I don't believe, was initially intended to be sexual but which quickly turned).  Your response above was clear and well-stated and I truly hope I did not offend you with my comment.

No offense taken.

[canuck45]

3 hours ago, CuriousNow said:

But that is, truly, easier said than done

Lots of things in life aren't easy and life isn't fair.   But we accept and/or overcome them or suffer needlessly.

As for forgiveness, you do it for yourself, not for them. 
I have forgiven people
When I forgive them, they no longer have power over me.
I forgive you and pity you for what you were/are: shallow, spiteful, angry, petty, ignorant, weak, insecure....

When you forgive, you accept.  Doesn't make the past correct, but it releases you from the past. 
Otherwise you bury the feelings and they return to haunt you over and over...resentments
Resentment: anger/feelings over past situations that elicit anger/feelings in the present.
I have no room in my life for resentments.
I tend to focus on the positives in school and life, the negatives have little effect on me today.  I remember them but they don't influence or hurt today.

I didn't go to reunions at first (10th and 20th)....then I said, "will I let one or 2 people stop me from attending.  By not attending they are still exerting their control and influence....FUCK THEM"   I went to the 30th 40th  and got to meet again with lots of old friends. Had a fantastic time, reunited with a bunch of great people.  Some I hadn't heard from or seen for 40 years and it was great to hear of the failures and successes.
June of this year 2023 will be our 50th....and looking forward to it.

BTW when I graduated we were the largest graduating class then and still are for my high school, over 300 graduating students in 1973.

Edited January 11, 2023 by canuck45