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Recently there was a post with the topic "Friend with larger dick".  The post wasn't the topic I expected, so I'm starting that topic here.

Have any of your friendships ever changed after they found our you're small?  Because for them they haven't.  Reflecting on this made me wonder where my worries have come from (well, societal normal, socially accepted jokes, etc...).  But truly, nobody I've already known has treated me differently after seeing my small one.  

NSFW - A group of friends, probably at a naked bike ride event... the tallest is the smallest.  http://cdn.429cdn.com/publicbfvideos/videothumbs/8.jpg

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Absolutely, friendships have changed or evaporated, but admittedly my late puberty was a contributing factor. 

Some guys expected me to take an explicitly inferior role relative to them while others just became noticeably patronizing.  If anything changed, I would avoid the person from then on, so, admittedly part of it came from me. 

But, in my mind at least, it was unmistakable that guys were thrilled to find-out they were larger, something that made friendship impossible for me. 

Same thing has happened in recent years with men I met at the gym or who happened to see me at the gym.

 

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Yes, I have had friendships change once people found out about my size.  some for the better, some for the worse. 

Most of the time, when individual people find out, they either avoid me or become hostile. I think the former is because they make assumptions about my character based on my size, even if they simply saw it for themselves or heard it from someone else spreading it without my knowledge. The hostility arises typically from men who have negative feelings toward my size,  for whatever reason.  I had a roommate overseas who stopped talking to me for two weeks after he walked in on me pissing in our room's shared bathroom. Another roommate, when I was in AIT, just became an asshole, and same with a man I honestly looked up to as a father figure in Texas. 

When people find out as groups, it seems to generate discussion.  Also in AIT, my first set of roommates became my close acquaintances. I found out later that after they found out my size from the showers, they talked about it and then proceeded to tell every living soul in AIT about it. So while most of them seemed to think it was cool, I sort of became an object to them, relevant only for the novelty. 

Contrasting that, I had a group of friends in Texas that legally found it cool and appreciated it because it was attached to me and they knew from experience and the way my size got revealed that I wasn't the type to be a jerk about.  So good natured teasing and joking began, and a man I consider the closest thing I'll ever have to an actual father sat me down and helped me with my confidence regarding my size.  Great man.  Great friends. 

Of course, that's not to say some people haven't simply been indifferent. Whether they found out first hand or second.  I appreciate those people because it suggests that their idea of me hasn't changed and doesn't revolve around my dick. 

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Well...I cannot imagine a true friend would give a damn about the size of one's dick, be it small, average or large!  I have friends with all size dicks.  What in the hell does the size of one's dick have to do with friendship?

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3 hours ago, Triasco9.5 said:

Contrasting that, I had a group of friends in Texas that legally found it cool

@Triasco9.5
Do you happen to know the legislature that made it legal   LOL  :P
Is it  only cool in Texas and other states might have other laws or has it been incorporated into the Constitution, Bill of Rights ???

Amendment 11 TPIS Part 1 (a), (b),(c):

a) The person known  as Triasco9.5 shall be deemed to have a cool penis in perpetuity.
b) henceforth Triasco9.5 may referred to as the "dude with the cool cock" with an exclusivity usage to said moniker
c) all others using  said moniker  are subject to punishment to the fullest extent by the laws of 'United States of America enclosed within.

by the executive order of the High Lord Executioner and POTASS of the USA

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12 hours ago, JamesD said:

(1) Some guys expected me to take an explicitly inferior role relative to them while others just became noticeably patronizing.  

(2) But, in my mind at least, it was unmistakable that guys were thrilled to find-out they were larger, something that made friendship impossible for me. 

(1) The only times anyone expected me to take an explicitly inferior role to them were in MFM three-ways and, even then, I'm not sure how explicit that was. It may have mostly been in my mind. I have occasionally felt a bit patronized in the showers, but again that may have been a result of my being a bit oversensitive. 

(2) This is something I have experienced quite a lot. When guys who may have been somewhat intimidated by my good-looks and build found out I'm hung like a chipmunk, their attitudes towards me brightened up immensely. They also took an immediate interest in my girl at the time. My first wife's family were a bunch of nudists. I was soon involved in nudism. I'm sure a lot of the guys just loved to be seen next to me in front of my wife or the other chicks. 

 

4 hours ago, canuck45 said:

@Triasco9.5
Do you happen to know the legislature that made it legal   LOL  :P
Is it  only cool in Texas and other states might have other laws or has it been incorporated into the Constitution, Bill of Rights ???

Amendment 11 TPIS Part 1 (a), (b),(c):

a) The person known  as Triasco9.5 shall be deemed to have a cool penis in perpetuity.
b) henceforth Triasco9.5 may referred to as the "dude with the cool cock" with an exclusivity usage to said moniker
c) all others using  said moniker  are subject to punishment to the fullest extent by the laws of 'United States of America enclosed within.

by the executive order of the High Lord Executioner and POTASS of the USA

If Triasco's cock isn't legally cool in all the fifty states, then it should be. In fact, work should commence immediately on making it the 28th Amendment to the Constitution. I think that's something all Americance can agree on. 

 

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Ive found that once you and friends see each others dicks,  if they had a larger dick, it seemed to give them a more dominant attitude, like Tiny Jock noted.  This happened alot from junior high school through college when you see other guys dicks often, but after that doesnt happen so much.  If sex happened, the guys with the larger dicks always took the more dominant role, which was fine with me as I have always been naturally submissive sexually with other men.   There is a dynamic there.  I had two straight friends in college and they had no reason to think I was anything but straight, after we saw each others dicks they seemed to constantly find an excuse to show it to me.  I did end up having sex with both of them separately late evenings drinking beer smoking weed and watching straight porn,  because I was smaller they seemed to think I was naturally the cocksucker.  Fortunately for them I was lol.

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I recently had a discussion with a college guy in my nudist group. He said he was that guy in junior high that had early puberty and a huge dick. Everyone called him horse dick. By ninth grade he was 8" with 6" girth. (Now he is 9"). He had a reputation in school and everyone knew about his size. He said girls would sometimes go out with him just to see if it was true and when they saw the real thing, they were like, keep that thing away from me. He said guys were intrigued to see it and play with it but few were willing to try to "take it". He said until he got into nudity and meeting guys who didn't care about size to be friends with him, he always wanted to be very small instead of very large. He tells guys who are small who tell him how lucky he is that THEY are the lucky ones. Just a different perspective.

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@Triasco9.5 T-9.5 and I have been communicating online for around ten years and probably more, starting at the now-defunct dick net site. From the get-go, I was far more interested in what's in his head and heart than what's in hia undies. He's gifted intellectually, is an articulate writer, and  an all round good guy. It's been an honor to mentor, share views with, and otherwise establish a valued friendship with someone who has made the world and my life better by being in them. Peace, young Jedi; live long and prosper.

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2 hours ago, Vinnig said:

@Triasco9.5 T-9.5 and I have been communicating online for around ten years and probably more, starting at the now-defunct dick net site. From the get-go, I was far more interested in what's in his head and heart than what's in hia undies. He's gifted intellectually, is an articulate writer, and  an all round good guy. It's been an honor to mentor, share views with, and otherwise establish a valued friendship with someone who has made the world and my life better by being in them. Peace, young Jedi; live long and prosper.

I only go back with @Triasco9.5 to 2015 but I can attest to everything you say. He's one of the nicest and most interesting guys I've met on the web. I always look forward to hearing from him. It's always a pleasure. 

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I am very small and I have two friends who have double digits dicks.  We are great friends and will continue to be, but I do admit that when we are nude together since we are nudists,  it is very humiliating for me.  I try to ignore the significant size difference, but it is difficult not to be jealous of them. 

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7 hours ago, bye said:

I am very small and I have two friends who have double digits dicks.  We are great friends and will continue to be, but I do admit that when we are nude together since we are nudists,  it is very humiliating for me.  I try to ignore the significant size difference, but it is difficult not to be jealous of them. 

I agree that this emotion is real, but like me, you are doing it to yourself.  In the end, your friends are your friends and that hasn't changed because of your penis size.

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I've had friends come and go, mostly due to change in circumstances like change of job or moved city. Size of dick has never been a factor.

In my last job many of us joined the local gym and we'd play racquet sports, football or gym workouts together. The gym had the old gang style showers so we all saw each other nude many times, and we'd often go for drinks afterwards. Dick size was never mentioned or commented on, maybe thats just the nature of the people I socialised with. There was one exception... of the 50 or so people in the company, there were 2 guys who were really hung. One was quite shy, the other was quite loud, drank like a fish and his party trick was to fold his cock in 2 and pick up a pint glass with it.

I used to spend more time with these 2, not because of their cock size I might add, just that we enjoyed the same racquet sports. So I'd often be standing naked in the showers next to one well hung guy or another, and it never bothered me.

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It's happened a lot with people who aren't friends...like family or in laws or coworkers but only once with a friend. I was on a trip to Germany and met up with a friend who moved to France years ago. We stayed at a hostel with open showers. We are very similar in appearance...I'm 6'5 and he's 6'4...I'm blonde and he has dirty blonde hair...I'm pretty built and he was starting to get in shape. But when we undressed it was totally different down there. My one incher versus his cock that was probably about four inches and very thick. I have a more dominant personality anyway but after this shower he started trying to act like the big man. A few nights later we were flirting with some chicks at a bar and one really hot girl started paying more attention to me. I guess he got jealous and was pretty drunk so he said something like "He may be the taller guy...but I'm the bigger guy". They started laughing out of nervousness and it totally killed the vibe. Anyway after that things got weirder and we kinda drifted apart. When I went back to Europe the last two times I didn't even let him know

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