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Bullshit! I'm a college dropout. I'm the holder of three U.S. and one Canadian patents that were critical to the success of a start-up business that later sold for $300 million. I'm someone who was able to retire at the age of 51 after 30 years with the same company. I am definitely a winner. And my small penis had nothing to do with it, neither positive nor negative. My philosophy of life is . . . It's better to be lucky than good, but you've got to be good to take advantage of your luck. My approach to my small endowment . . . Your most important sex organ isn't between your legs, it's between your ears. Alan G

I sleep naked. In fact I don't really have a choice. My wife developed this habit of wanting to rub her foot over my bum cheeks before she sleeps. She finds it soothing. The few times I tried to wear sleeping boxer shorts, her toe grips the waistband and she slides them down to my ankles and begins her pre-sleep routine......so i gave up!

I’m back in school at a different university in the East and I’m on a rowing team. It’s a very close team manship group. Physical contact, locker room antics and of course a lot of nudity in the showers-in and out of. At first I tried to hide my smallness, as I’m definitely the tiny guy. Once I was outed I got a lot of flack for my tiny button and the guys could not believe that anyone could be that tiny. Of course with that came all the usual questions. It’s been an uphill struggle to “fit in”, but I’ve had to “prove “ myself by becoming the best rower on the team. I’ve had to really work hard at it to basically overcome my smallness. I’m accepted now for my ability, but certainly not for my size. The showers and lockers are still humiliating for me, but the team has accepted me as one of the.

One family I knew at the nudist resort and beach near where I grew up for a few years, had a son that had the longest hair on a boy I have ever seen before or since. It was so long he could sit on it, and wore it up in a wrap/bun twist most of the time. It was striking, platinum blond, very fine and straight, like silk. Coupled with his fair white alabaster skin, and piercing blue eyes, he drew looks everywhere he went. He had a graceful dancer's body, very thin and delicate features and slim frame. His mother had even longer hair, she was greying young, and it was this enchanting combination of red, blonde, grey, brown hair. I knew him from when he was 9-12, he started out a little longer than most boys 2.5 inches long and uncircumcised, maybe 3.5 inches erect, once he started puberty he grew maybe half an inch a year, and last I saw him, he was 4 inches soft, and almost 6 inches hard.

This didn't happen for me until I was 33yo (52 now). I have no desire to have a bigger penis. I have no desire to put in the work to have a cut athletic body. I exercise regularly, but still have a dad bod and nothing I can do about my small penis. I'd guess 98% of people who see me naked think I'm not good looking. But none of them matter. Only the guy looking back at me in the mirror matters.

First time I remember comparing cock size was when I was 14 with my Nextdoor friend. He was 2 years younger and hadn't started to go through puberty yet so I looked like a giant! That was the only time I felt bigger than someone else. Next time comparing was at sleep over camp. We all pulled ours out and compared. Of course I was the smallest of them all and from then on was made fun of. And then there was High School and the showers! That pole in the middle of the shower room where everyone could see you and no place to hide. That was the worst. I would try to get in and out before everyone else went in or I'd wait until I was the last to go in. Timing was everything. My first few times with guys at university I'd make sure the lights were off so they couldn't see before the felt my cock. When they turned the lights on and saw my cock I would automatically become the bottom. I think we are always comparing, I think it's natural, I just don't get hung up on my size anymore. I embrace it and love being small.

I'm the only male in my household and when my daughter got to be about 8yo she was curious about my penis. She was always trying to get a look at it whether I was getting out of the shower, peeing, changing, etc. Rather than hide it or act like a penis was "dirty" or sexual...I talked to her about it. I let her see it. She asked a lot of questions. We talked about sizes and circumcision, etc. Folks, if you don't teach your kids, someone else will. There are lots of dirty old men posing as kids on social media.

I know it's a really old thread but... I'm only a month in and I've already felt better, so many guys in the same situation. Everyone I have spoke to has been great. I wish I had found it years ago 😃

Hi all! Big fan of comparing my cock to others, never had the guts to do it in person but really enjoy doing it online.

I love small breasts--the smaller the better. I'm aroused by a large clitoris. And I also love prominent labia minora. Just thinking about these three favorites is arousing.

I get loads of premium while soft runs off my cock

Age 62 3 inches hard 1 inch soft Hasn't changed with age

I have had this problem my whole life until the last year or so. I normally cum within about a minute but lately I've been going 2-4 minutes. Maybe it's an age thing. I always thought that maybe a small penis has the same number of nerves as a large penis making my small one more sensitive. After reading this post, I'm surprised to find out that a lot of smaller guys have the same problem. My solution to this has always been to make my wife cum first and then I put it in and finish off.

If human male penises were all retracted when flaccid imagine how much better life would be. There would be no comparing of dick sizes. No making fun, or being made fun of. No fear of being seen naked. Not to mention the comfort aspect.

I'm kinda relieved to read that my dick is not so different than some others here. Sometimes mine "slips inside" and disappears completely when I'm sitting down. I find it to be uncomfortable and annoying when that happens...and sometimes it slips inside when I'm standing or walking. It kinda depends on the day. It's ALWAYS a reminder of my small size. My dick has NO "dangle" at all...I notice with envy the ads for underwear that have separate pouches for your dick and balls. A separate dick pouch would be wasted on me since my dick doesn't hang -- I'm doing good if the head stays outside. That said, though, my 5" powertool serves me well and still works!

Scrotum can be difficult to shave, in my experience you need to pull and stretch the skin tight before using a razor.

If I'm at home and have a hand free there is a good chance I'll be touching my penis and or balls, I just find it relaxing, I also enjoy getting a bit of a semi on the go so I have a little more to play with lol.

I can't believe I didn't know about the bone press measuring, if I do that I gain just over an inch. Man I need to loose a bit of weight 🫣

I took the measurements people provided in their profiles. Inches, # of particpants, percentage of participants at that size, what percentile that is and a summary of <5 .....

I find it funny when people use a TV remote as some kind of size indicator... that's only helpful if everyone has the same brand of TV! Even toilet rolls aren't standard, not in girth anyway. There is something that is standard, kind of what it's invented for... a ruler!

Nothing at all, that's the most comfortable. Also can't sleep on my stomach, don't ask me why.

Personally, I use the word "penis". But, that's my own personal preference. I don't apply the more crude and sexualized words to it and the same for testicles. Architecturally, the male genitalia are fascinating and deserve respect.

Back at 3.5.

Age 55 Erect 5.7" Girth 4.1" Flaccid 3.6" Same as I posted almost two years ago when I was 54, lol. I really like this topic.

I get loads of soft pre cum. Get some hard pre cum aswell 👌

I’m 3” erect on a good day and always in the lowest percentile of any measure worldwide, humiliated at school but chatted for years on this site with lots like me and found the courage to be proud of my dicklet .i am surprised when I go to my local sauna at even smaller men than me . We are out there !

I'm the opposite, I'm only short 🤣 Small hands, pretty average feet, but very short legs. So I suppose my small size means in in proportion 🤔

Nothing but a smile

I never measured to compare mine to others, but by eighteen, I was convinced mine was at least on the upper end of ordinary. I went along that way in the pre-video and pre-internet years (we never dreamed such things would happen). In my mid twenties, I had the good fortune to find myself and girlfriend in a same room sex encounter with a friend who was home on leave. There in the hotel room I saw for the first time that another cock was about two inches longer than my own. Later talking with him about the shared experience, he told me his seven was seen sometimes, six was pretty common and now and then a really big one was seen. My five was finally put into its place, and I concentrated on finding new ways to thrill the ladies. My tongue and lips have thanked me bountifully since. And, in the meantime my small cock has had a lot of fun as well.

Same happens to me on the beach in summer, all it takes is a light breeze and everything shrivels up and gets tighter. Penis tends to bob about on top of my tight scrotum when I walk around. Winter months it can be almost painful.

With that attitude, you're right, you won't be but don't lump us smaller guys with on stroke of the brush. The poly couple my wife and I are involved with, the other guy is much larger than I am. He totally looks up to me and success I have in life. He has struggled his whole life (many things outside of his control) and see how I have a long term job, own a house, have owned many cars, etc. He wishes he had/has what I do. He wishes he could have made better choices and such. Penis size has never been part of the equation for either of us. As for our penises, he envies mine because I can get hard faster/easier. I can stay hard longer without stimulation. I can get hard quicker after I cum. His wife loves mine, as it fits her just right, where his is a little too large for her, so they have to be very careful and are limited to a couple positions. Sure I envy his, just because the size looks better but I would not want to give up what I can do, just for the sake of being larger. My wife and I are also in the local kink community and I have been able to do different scenes/play with others. No one I have played with has ever said anything about my size nor has it ever been an issue. I have been seen naked by a lot of people at play parties and no one has ever said anything or prevented any play. I am always the smallest guy there but that hasn't stopped me nor has it stopped others. A person's attitude will make you a winner or loser. Your energy you put off, will be more of a factor. Sure I am self conscious of my size but I try to keep myself confident when naked around others and that makes me a winner. Stop using your size to be the reason of all of life's negativity around yourself. You can be a winner but you have to work for it. Just having a large cock isn't some magic key to solving life's problems.

Same with me. I started puberty at around 11 or earlier. I was ejaculating by 11-12 years old. My genitalia stopped growing by 13, or maybe even earlier. I grew a bit taller, but I think I stopped growing in height by 15.

Same here. I started puberty early and it ended early. My dick was done growing by the time I was 12.

I was an early starter 9 or 10 I remember we used to go swimming from school on Friday mornings and I was embarrassed because I was the only one in the class to have hair. As you can see by my profile starting early didn't help me develop bigger.

Same here. Mom told me I used to take off my diaper and play with my little boner.

Man's best friend... it's not a dog. I'm always touching my best friend, making sure he's happy.

Ever since I was a little boy when I was constantly putting my hand down my shorts to envelope my penis with my hand (my mother was constantly telling me to stop it!) things never changed. I still do it during the day and evening when sitting by myself. Back then it was probably an alternative to sucking my thumb which I never did! I've always found it comforting.

33 Soft anywhere from half inch to 2.5 Hard 4.5 - 4.75 on a good day I used to be a bit bigger not much but at our size every little helps 😢

@Wookieboy that's some good advice right there man. I wish I had just a bit of your confidence, I hate being small always have. One thing I have found is that since I've only just discovered this site, I do feel comfortable discussing things in these various threads and topics. It's all anonymous or as anonymous as you want it to be & most of us are in the same boat. Still can't ever see myself being seen by anyone other than my wife or the doctor though. But this site has definitely gave me a slight confidence boost.

Nothing comes between my body and my sheets.

Here I go again, sounding like a broken record. No shrinkage. Hard as a rock. Can get it up in no time. Can still cum several times a day if the mood strikes. Now that I think about it, maybe I coulld be a sex worker. LOL P.S. Orgasms are still screaming toe curlers.

Lol ok. 5 feet 11, 2.5 - 3 inch soft, 5 3/4 inches hard

Yeah, comparing is fun! 😊

Like probably most guys, the first penis I saw that wasn't mine was my father's. And, I was totally fascinated by it because it looked nothing like the little appendage that I peed out of. That was when I was like 5 years old or so and I remember it like yesterday. Later on, as I started to enter puberty, I tried to catch a look at him naked whenever I could. Seeing him naked became an obsession of mine. I never considered it inappropriate and still don't.

I love to compare cocks. Never mind that mine is usually the smaller cock. I especially like circumcised cocks so that a guy's glans is always exposed and I can see it.

@Grimson .... The ones who totally amaze us, lock vividly in our minds.

I was at my gym over the weekend, fairly quiet on the holidays but a couple of 50+ guys there changing who were far more open about being naked. The guy who changed close to me was really comfortable in his own skin, he walked to/from the showers naked and happily applied body lotion after his shower. He was probably in his 50s I'd say, spoke with an African accent. Aside from the colour of our skin, we could have been cock twins in size and shape, he was also shaved.

The short (ish) version: Age 11: (first measure) 5" hard, about 1" soft (from memory, not measured). Age 13: 5.5" hard, no length change soft, but a bit thicker. Age 14: 6" hard, no longer soft again. This was the year of my first squirt. Age 15: 6.25" hard, slightly longer and thicker soft but not much. Age 16: 6.75" hard, no change soft. Age 17: almost 7.5" hard, again very little change soft. Not much happening size wise after age 17. I think I added some girth but can't be sure as I never actually checked my girth till I was well into my twenties. Like some other posters have mentioned, I wish I'd been a bit more scientific about it growing up, even if it didn't extend to keeping a written record. War And Peace version: I got a whole load of incorrect information, and from it made logical but false assumptions about average size. At around age 10, some nuns visited my school to do initial sex ed., and they told us outright that average length was 8 inches. To this day I'm really small soft and grow a lot hard, but I'd seen my dad's a lot, and he is a large shower. Not knowing anything about growers vs showers at that point either, my young brain put two and two together to make 5, and I convinced myself I had a lot of growing to do to catch up with my dad and get to the 8" the nuns had told us about. After all, assuming my dad's grew as much as mine - the only data point I had to go on - then I guessed he was probably waaay over 8" erect, since I'd estimated him as being around 6" soft. (Coincidentally my dad drunkenly told me and my brothers recently that his hardon is "a solid seven incher".) So anyway, by age 11 I'd been "dry" jacking (orgasm but no cum) for about 3 years, after discovering it in the bath one day like most people do. (In the immortal words of Richard Pryor: "they couldn't KEEP my ass outta the tub after that!"). Around that age, I read a popular UK book "The Growing Pains of Adrian Mole" which features a line where the main character reports a classmate telling him that his dick "goes off the end of a ruler", by which I assumed a 6" ruler, and this fascinated me, so it was when I first decided to measure my own dick. So, with the nuns' 8" nonsense lodged firmly in my head, and unable to get the image of my old man's huge heavy hanger out of my head, I had no idea that my just over 5" erect length at the time was legitimately quite big, especially for my small body size, and figured I still had growing to do so I'd "probably hit that 8" eventually". Lacking information on how to measure properly, I measured along the underside, and my dick did indeed "go off the end of the ruler", so I was super pleased on that count, since the character in the book had been a few years older than me so if nothing else that was reassuring. But... measuring the underside adds a false inch, so I've corrected the record here 🤣 I didn't get much in the way of hair down there till my mid teens, and I didn't gain much height till after age 16 either. I realised afterwards that my dick and balls grew before the rest of me did. Which matches memories I have, from around ages 12-16, of masturbating with two hands and shaft to spare. I've always been small bordering on tiny when soft, and I don't know that I ever really got much extra flaccid length during adolescence, although I did get noticeable flaccid girth. I didn't have any big genital growth spurts that I noticed, although I was desperate to get a lot bigger, still not realising that I was already bigger than average when hard. I steadily reached my adult erect length, more or less, by age 17, adding a tiny bit of length and more girth up to about age 22. I landed at 7.5“ I know this is the "small exchange" forum and that's just not in that range, but I figure it's interesting that I have always stayed around the 1-2" mark flaccid, which is how most people get to see it, so I'm hoping nobody will mind me joining the discussion on that technicality. Finally, as a random footnote: there was a point in my late 20's when I got sick and rapidly lost about 60lbs in body weight from an already lean starting point. I was seriously, seriously ill, not having sex and masturbating only occasionally, and for function rather than enjoyment, but towards the end when I was getting better I found that if I really jammed the ruler in hard I was about an eighth of an inch under that magic 8" mark the nuns put in my head all those years before lol. Of course I immediately out the weight back on and more once I got healthy again, so it was fun but completely temporary.

I always wear my birthdaysuit in bed.

I also started puberty early, i had a hairy cock at 11 years old and it was at its full size at about 13 years old. Starting secondary school there was only me and one other guy who had a hairy cock at 11 and i found it quite embarrassing when all the other kids used to stare at it in the showers