Being the smallest in the family

[Collin88]

So I am very well aware I’m not much of a shower or a grower, abt 3.5-4” hard which I’ve come to accept. One thing that took me a while to accept was being smaller than everyone in my family, including my dad, uncles and brothers. We have gone to bath houses and shared outdoor showers so we have seen eachother, my dad and uncles are actually pretty hung. While they are not as big as my dad, I noticed all my brothers are a few inches bigger than me. I have one older brother and two younger brothers, 7 years younger, 2 years younger and 2 years older than me. Like I said I have come to accept this but growing up as the smallest was hard, especially being made fun of by my little bro. I wanted to know how normal this was and if anyone is in the same boat, I know sometimes the size variable is genetic and affects the whole fam but it seems like I got the unlucky pick genetics wise

[justsmall]

I'm the smallest I have seen in my family, but also had some health issues when young and side effects of some of the meds kept me small.  I've seen my Dad soft and he was already bigger and much thicker than me hard. My brother is 13 months younger and he was blessed like my Dad. 

[jacob_k]

It sucks but I also believe it's very normal...there's lots of posts of guys here saying that they're smaller than relatives including younger ones and even a few guys saying they're bigger than relatives. Genetics is probably more complicated than we think. With my micropenis I'm the smallest out of all my brothers and male cousins by a lot especially since most of them are above average or big...and a few of them are huge. All of them lucked out and I didn't lol. On the other hand my best friend is very hung but his brother is small. There are lots of us out there

[SloStroker]

My brother and I are very small. My dad was average and my brothers son has a pretty big dick. Someone has to be the smallest. My brother is actually a little smaller than me.

[TinyJock]

My father and brother are both fairly well-hung. (My brother's about 7".) Although my brother is 18 months older, I matured earlier than most kids my age, so we went through puberty about the same time. When he saw how small I was, he started teasing me mercilessly, saying things like I'd never be able to satisfy a woman with my "baby dick". This went on for a couple months, then suddenly stopped. 

I won't blame it all on him, but after that I was left feeling insecure sexually, worried that I'd too small for women.  I'm sure it was a big part of why, despite my popularity with girls, I avoided sex throughout high school. Looking back, I now trace a lot of my concerns about size to his teasing.

Growing up I was totally paranoid about my father seeing me naked. I was sure I'd disappoint him. On the other hand, I had no such inhibitions around my mother. It never bothered me for her to see me naked. She and I once took an automobile trip. We'd share the bathroom and I'd shower, shave, and go about my morning routine without a worry about her seeing me naked -- even including the occasional morning wood.

Edited January 3, 2022 by TinyJock

[old n hard]

My remaining sibling is nearly 8 but not as thick as I.  I saw only two other brothers nude.  Of the four I know about, no one was/is small.  

[new2day]

23 minutes ago, old n hard said:

My remaining sibling is nearly 8 but not as thick as I.  I saw only two other brothers nude.  Of the four I know about, no one was/is small.  

There must be a big dick gene in your family!

[Mark_1991]

I don’t have any brothers but younger male cousins uncles grandfather and my dad are all bigger than me and they are very well endowed and my dad thinks your not a real man if your small 

[canuck45]

3 hours ago, Mark_1991 said:

my dad thinks your not a real man if your small 

And they say dinosaurs are extinct....LOL

 

[Brucey]

On 12/25/2021 at 9:57 PM, Collin88 said:

but it seems like I got the unlucky pick genetics wise

Not necessarily. Many women don't like big pricks. The bullying is an issue but that is a societal problem. People need to be educated to accept differences.

One of my brothers has a massive knob whilst i am small. I have had more sexual partners than he has had though. He doesn't mind; neither do i. It is just the way it is.

Edited January 9, 2022 by Brucey
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[SloStroker]

15 hours ago, Brucey said:

Not necessarily. Many women don't like big pricks.

This is true. Some women have very petite vaginas or they don't get very wet. Big cocks are painful for them.

[Guest]

On 1/3/2022 at 7:32 AM, TinyJock said:

My father and brother are both fairly well-hung. (My brother's about 7".) Although my brother is 18 months older, I matured earlier than most kids my age, so we went through puberty about the same time. When he saw how small I was, he started teasing me mercilessly, saying things like I'd never be able to satisfy a woman with my "baby dick". This went on for a couple months, then suddenly stopped. 

I won't blame it all on him, but after that I was left feeling insecure sexually, worried that I'd too small for women.  I'm sure it was a big part of why, despite my popularity with girls, I avoided sex throughout high school. Looking back, I now trace a lot of my concerns about size to his teasing.

Growing up I was totally paranoid about my father seeing me naked. I was sure I'd disappoint him. On the other hand, I had no such inhibitions around my mother. It never bothered me for her to see me naked. She and I once took an automobile trip. We'd share the bathroom and I'd shower, shave, and go about my morning routine without a worry about her seeing me naked -- even including the occasional morning wood.

very brave and natural man

[Guest]

I also am smallest in family that I know of,  my dad and older brother are both at least 2" longer than me erect.  My dad is longest and thickest.  His brother, my uncle was not as big as him but bigger than me.

[Tsoren]

My brother is two years younger than me and we have always been virtually identical in size.  We would see my dad and uncle nude when they would join us skinny dipping when they got home from work.  At first they looked big to us, but we started realizing they were both very similar to my brother and I.  We all seemed to be somewhat long and very thin, with extra long foreskins.  While I saw my brother erect lots of times, I only saw my father flaccid and my uncle with a semi.  But judging from his semi, he wasn't a grower, and probably stayed thin when fully erect.  But since I didn't see either of them fully hard, it is hard to say with certainty.  And all four of us have balls that are probably smaller than average, too.  My two cousins were much thicker than we were in terms of penis girth, even thicker than our fathers when they were still kids.

[Guest smalltor]

I'm the smallest in the family.  Something that was and still is mentioned, ever since I was a kid.

[MyUsername25]

I am definitely smaller than my brother. Or at least I was in the early teen years. That's the last time I saw him naked. 

Growing up we got bare ass spankings. Since we shared a bedroom we often saw each other get spanked and sometimes got spanked together. 

Even though I am older I always noticed that his penis looked much longer than mine. His would flop around and hang down when getting spanked. While mine more just poked out and bounced around. 

The last time we got spanked together or in front of each other, I was about 14-15. We had come home almost 2 hours past curfew. Dad was pissed! He sent us up to our room and came in there, grabbed me first. Yanked down my pants and underwear and started beating my ass. It was summer so we were only wearing t shirts and basketball shorts. Making everything very easy to see. 

Anyway, so dads spanking my butt for a few, it hurts, it sucks, it's embarrassing as hell. He tells me to go sit on the bed and grabs my brother by the arm. Brother is begging him not to spank him. Dad pulls down his pants and out pops a boner! His dick is rock hard and at least double the size of mine when it's hard. After getting spanked he wasn't hard anymore but the memory and shame I felt at that moment has never gone away. 

Brother has never said anything about our dick sizes but I'm sure he had to have noticed. 

[chevy1946]

another one the smallest of three, compared to them damn tiny even my dad was way larger

[Guest]

Out of all my male relatives I have seen naked (dad, brother, uncles, and cousins) I am the smallest. There is only one uncle who comes close to my size and he is still about 3" bigger soft and my brother is the biggest erect (of the ones I've seen or felt erect) at 9.5"...because of the difference between my brother and I they joke that I'm the mail man's kid lol

[canuck45]

Mail mans kid, but you know what they say about the mail service, its always delivers the package

[uniball]

Still remember when I realized I was small.  Changing with my cousins and seeing how they all had way more down there than me.  My Dad is hung so idk why I didn’t inherit it.  Always felt embarrassed for him to find out, so still hasn’t see me without underwear on.

[Wookieboy]

I was the smallest in my family, and an the middle brother of three boys.  My older brother is three years older and my younger brother is two years younger.   It KILLED me that my younger brother was hung bigger, and he knew it too and never let me forget it!  In fact my brother took to calling me "Little Bro" because they knew it got under my skin. Out of all my male relatives I have seen naked (brothers, uncles, and cousins), or even neighbors or team mates on the swim team or wrestling, I was always the smallest. My father told me that I had an uncle on my mother's side who was also supposed to be hung small like mine.  My brothers would tease me pretty regularly even in front of friends and other family members.  I remember getting so angry at it and my dad just told me to "man up" and thicken my skin cause that is what brothers do.  One of my cousins would sometimes defend me and he was always kewl with me about it.  I remember him setting up some races once and I won and he told me to add that to my ammunition for next time.  That sort of triggered me to get more into athletics because it was a strength I could play to. 

[JuniorOfficer]

It really sucks that your dad would try to make you feel bad about your body @Wookieboy - when actually he should be ripping into your brother for his attitude. 

Nice that you got some support from your cousin- a supportive bro can make a big difference to how we handle that kind of abuse. Sounds like he is a real good guy.

I’m smaller than my older brother, but it has never been an issue between us.  Our parents never talked about anything sexual - cannot imagine talking to my dad about the size of our hard-ons.  So growing up my brother was really important to me, and I guess part of our bond now is because I feel I never appreciated at the time what he was doing for me. 

[Wookieboy]

I don't think my dad's intent was to make me feel bad about my body, but rather to "toughen up" to dealing with my brother's teasing.   My dad was right in many ways, being all "sensitive" and allowing him to cow tow my behavior with bullying did not help me. My dad had only a very few conversations with me about my dick size and I believe in all of them he as "Trying" to be respectful.   My mother's ONLY referral to my size indicated her belief that "God has something better in store for you than sex."  My younger bro still makes joked to this day, though I no longer speak with my older bro. 

[JuniorOfficer]

Thanks for the update @Wookieboy, I guess was a bit too eager to judge there. 

I can see it would be tough for some fathers to handle this issue between sons - maybe a little embarrassing for him, and hard to put himself in your situation (if he is a larger guy like your brothers).

And I do not have kids, so who am I to judge - but hope I would be more like your cousin, and mentor my kids with some positive behaviour. 

[Wookieboy]

I get a bit defensive for my dad, because he really came through for me in life when my mom and older brother failed me.  It was my dad who allowed me to get hormone treatments in my later teen years.  My mother had denied those when doctors recommended them for religious reasons. When I cam out as bi, and mom mom wanted to place me in a conversion program, my Dad stepped in and I went to live with him .  He was not perfect, but his heart was in the right place. But yes he tended to stay neutral in our sibling rivalries.